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« Truth about marriageخلاصات رمضانية.. »

Second hand lovers!

  • By: Qwaider

  • On:Tuesday, September 25, 2007 1:55:20 AM
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    Rated 4.5/5 stars (71 votes cast)

    A dear friend of mine recently got engaged to a very nice man. The groom is charming, educated, well mannered, from a fantastic family. He's also head over heels in love with my friend, everything is perfect. My friend too is also from a great family, very beautiful, well educated and from a financially stable family. All was perfect with one exception the groom is also a father to 2 beautiful little girls

    I tried to reason for a while with my friend, so did her family. With absolutely no success. She was convinced 100% that this is the person she wants. And the one she wants to spend the rest of her life with.

    Frankly, I didn't want to pressure her too much. Since I saw the way she was defending him in front of her family, and the glitter of content in her eyes. She was in love with him. And he appreciated her in a way no one else knew how. Which explains her family's jealousy of the whole thing. But they only wanted what's best for their daughter

    But the family also had other concerns regarding the whole situation. Since his ex-wife is an Arab. They were concerned that he would have feelings for her and might mistreat their daughter because of that.

    My friend, who's floating in so much love with, looked at me and said she has never felt that she was in the presence of a real man except when she's around him. She described how she loves the little girls and how that person really understands her. His experience apparently allowed him to have insight that allowed him to understand things and handle issues most couldn't. She felt that he contained her. She felt content, and complete

    She also felt something for the little girls, they moved something in her heart and made her feel that she wants to do whatever she can, to turn their house once again to a home. She understood the responsibility, and is willingly accepting it. She wants to be their mom.

    I withdrew, I felt honored that I actually lost that argument.

    This might be a second chance, but it seems it's going to be first quality, and worth many more firsts 

    So Asmaa and Zaid, Alf Mabrook, I am sorry, I was wrong. I hope you two will have a long and a lasting life ahead of you. (And is it true you decided to get married during the Eid?)

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    Mabrook.
    • #3
    • sam
    • Windows Internet Explorer
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    • On: 9/25/2007 7:31:58 AM
    mabrook!
    iza il 2adi radi.. i dont get it, we're open minded w claim we're tolerant w midri shu w when it comes to ppl close to us or in our circle we become all what we criticized in other ppl..

    i love happy endings, and love is just so grand! Mabrook to A & Z, celebrate ur love everyday :)
    I wish them all the best, and as long as she came into this with her eyes open you have nothing to fear. may they have a happy and blessed life together.
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    • Tamer
    • Windows Internet Explorer
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    • On: 9/25/2007 1:28:54 PM
    MaBrOoOoK ! God bless the new family.
    I think it's wonderful that she's taking in his 2 daughters and wants to be their mother. Allah yhaneehom inshallah. Alf mabrook! :)
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    • Nizar
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    • On: 9/25/2007 3:36:50 PM
    alf mabrook o allah yhaneehom la ba3ad

    Qwaider, I think its your turn soon :D
    I don't really care. If someone is good, Having previous relationships doesn't mean anything

    So Mabrook to the 3irsan :)
    MABROOK! allah y2aderhom o ye2daro ydeero balhom 3ala ba3ad o 3ala el kids, i loved it when you said " she wants to do whatever she can, to turn their house once again to a home" that's amazing.. allah yhaneehom o ytamemlhom 3ala 5ear :)
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    • afaf
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    • On: 9/26/2007 2:39:41 AM
    mabrouk to them, big time...
    and yeah i can understand ur confusion...but i will tell u this...
    if they kept telling u how they feel about eachothers...so and so.. the whole world will never feel what is really down there in their hearts...yeah they can say it...but no words can explain it...
    i have to give it to her, she is so openminded and kind to take his kids as her own, it is not that common, u know...adn as for him, his previous experience must have polished him well and he knows exactly what he really needs and wants in life...
    we donot get second chances in life often, so inshalla jeezet el 3omor koloh...
    yeah, ur turn now...
    peace to all..
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    • A and Z
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    • On: 9/26/2007 7:52:11 AM
    Thanks Sam, and everyone for the warm wishes :)
    Okbal 3indkom inshallah
    You too can have your Memories Documented

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