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And the very next day, she moved on!

By: Qwaider

On:Wednesday, September 05, 2007 9:54:22 AM
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I'm so surprised of the ability of some people to move on from a relationship. You would have this friend who is going through relationship issues. Then one day you wake up to them telling you that they've moved on and now they're happily in a Relationship with the new person!

Honestly I hear this more from girls than guys. One day they're head over heels with some guy, next day they're devastated and the very next day, she has moved on and now she's happily involved with a new dude! Which all surprises me more than anything

My only conclusion is that many people keep "back-ups". They would be in a relationship but continuously keep an eye out for any other opportunities out there and are ready to drop whatever they're doing at a moment's notice and simply move on!

A friend of mine, who has been in a relationship with another friend of mine suddenly turned out to be in a relationship with a third person. I found out completely by coincidence when the "new guy" was telling me how it's AMAZING to be with that SAME lady.

And after telling me the history of their relationship they turned out to be in a relationship for quite some time. (Overlapping with my other friend)

I kept my mouth shut!

PS: If you think this is about you, it might be!

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#1
secratea
Said
On: 9/5/2007 10:23:48 AM

"Honestly I hear this more from girls than guys. One day they're head over heels with some guy, next day they're devastated and the very next day, she has moved on and now she's happily involved with a new dude!"
Honestly, if you want, I can strongly counter your above statement with an opposing one-- I hear that the situation you are describing happens more with males than females. Lots of males I hear about not only have simultaneous relationships, some can hold four at once! looool.. ok, now i am exaggerating, but it is just an individualistic choice..Come on Q, you can't get away with stereotyping females like that!

#2
Qwaider
Said
On: 9/5/2007 10:35:57 AM

I guess there is a reason for what I said, women are usually in great demand. That's a fact of life.
As for people (males and females) holding simultaneous relationships there is no exaggerated upper limit

#3
miss sea lover
Said
On: 9/5/2007 12:51:10 PM

i have seen such things in life, i just can't get it how ppl do it??

#4
Maioush
Said
On: 9/5/2007 1:27:53 PM

Yeah Qwaider, I was surprised to know that these things happen for real!!!
I’m one of those people who used to believe that there is no such a thing, I mean are you kidding me??? This is considers cheating!!! But recently that girls are using the “backup” all the time, so when things doesn’t work with A, no problem we have B available, and sometimes C… how disgusting :S … and when “NORMAL” people try to get in a “NORMAL” relationship, there is always the doubt or worse, you’ll find the guy telling the girl “all the girls are doing it, why would you be different?”, my answer to those people is: NO, it’s normal, and NO not all the girl are doing it. It’s sick, extremely sick, for both guys and girls, you wanna be in a freakin relationship, be in a normal one!!! Whatever!!!

#5
Maher
Said
On: 9/5/2007 9:27:35 PM

Qwaider, you are so right here!
i meet many of those people, and as you said the girls do that more than the guys!

its really sad how girls have become in our sociaty, they are like the guys , they prefere to go from one relationship to another just for the sake of fun!

#6
Dareen
Said
On: 9/5/2007 11:46:12 PM

Thank u Qweider,
I would really love to know how can they do that!!
Really how do they get all the strength to easily get over a relationship just like a click and simply replace someone who is supposed to be their center of life with another new guy or girl.

I would really love to know how

#7
Verbal Alchemy
Said
On: 9/6/2007 10:32:10 AM

there r a number of reasons why they move on so soon and so smoothly:

1. the relationship dint mean anything to them
2. they r finally convinced that its going nowhere and they shud move on
3. it was on the rebound and they found that they were misusing the other person and decided to stop the abuse
4. too many fights and fall outs harden the softest heart
just to name a few...

i reckon its either the girl is more selfish to move on asra3 min il shab or coz women geenrally r more in touch with their feelings and emotions that they r able to heal faster than men.

#8
أسماء
Said
On: 9/7/2007 11:57:18 AM

تكون هذه الصداقات قائمة في المجمل الغالب على مصلحة ما أو حاجة ما, لأن الصديق الصادق هو الذي لا يلتفت إلى سواك مهما تقلبت الدنيا، أما عن أن هذه الظاهرة تكثر في البنات أكثر منها عند الشبان فهي من باب الصدفة المحضة التي وقعتَ بها. عادةً ما يلجأ الأشخاص إلى البحث عن شخص يستطيعون من خلاله تلبية رغباتهم أو حاجاتهم النفسية الملحة أو نزوتهم العاطفية فتكون هذه العلاقة لحظية وهي التي يتسم بها معظم الناس في مجتمعاتنا، لأنهم ربما لا يدركون مغزى "الصحبة" و معناها البعيد في النفس و الروح.. أما علاقة الصداقة التي تبقى فهي تلك التي تنبثق من إلحاح عميق لا يُدرى كنهه لأنه غير مستند على مصلحة أو حاجة و بالتالي تدوم هذه العلاقة وإن عتا عليها الزمان

سلامٌ على الدنيا إن لم يكن بها صديقٌ صدوقٌ صادق الوعدِ منصفا

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