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« You can only have a maid .... if....Food Qwaiderizations »

حاسس بالضياع!

  • By: Qwaider

  • On:Monday, July 02, 2007 10:38:25 PM
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    Rated 4.5/5 stars (167 votes cast) Thanks for your vote!

    عجيبة الدنيا و قلاّبة ... كل يوم بحال... و كل حال اعجب من الآخر! كل فترة .. اقرر شيء، اعود بسرعة لأكل كلماتي و اقلب رأيي مع بقية الدنيا المقلوبة... 
    بعد رؤية مصائب غيري، قررت ان لا اتزوّج ابداً.. و قبل ان اتابع قراري، انفتحت نفسي على الزواج ثانية

    حاسس فعلا انّي ضايع بين الحالتين... لا المتزوج مرتاح ... و لا الاعزب مرتاح... شكلوا الراحة -من ناحية اجتماعية على الأقل- شيء لا يمكن ادراكه.

    الحلول تقريبا غير موجودة .. اما زواج بدون تحضير او تجهيز، او عزوبية بدون اتجاه او هدف.. و الحالتين اسوأ من بعض!

    المشكلة باقية.. لكل الشباب المساكين اللي في المهجر .. كيف يلاقي بنت الحلال... كيف يتفاهم، يتواصل و يتعامل معها ... و كيف يوصل للسعادة المشتركة للطرفين

    الصراحة، تجارب قاسية في الماضي افقدتني الثقة، و الامل في امكانية حل المشكلة (ام ما يسمى بالعُقَد) ... لكن ... كل مشكلة و الها حل و كل عقدة و الها منشار!

    انا مش عارف ليش الموضوع بيشغل اهتمامي زيادة عن اللزوم، يمكن الحاح الأهل، يمكن صعوبة الحياة... يمكن الغيرة من الآخرين.. انا فعلا بديت اتعب من الحكي في الموضوع. بدون حل! و الله لو كان شي هندسي .. كان حلّيتو من زمااااان!

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    « You can only have a maid .... if....Food Qwaiderizations »

    Memories....

    it is occupying your mind more than you would like because you are thinking about taking a step towards whatever it is you want....just find a way to live your life as you want, happy and content, be it single or married...each has its positives and negatives! it is always a good thing to try life on the other side of the fence...Best of luck!
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    • afaf
    • Windows Internet Explorer
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    • On: 7/3/2007 12:24:21 AM
    it is not a problem....cease ur own peace of mind and do the things that will make u happy....nomatter what??? just try to please urself instead of pleasing others....
    beside u will always wanna try it all...so no one is content with what he has....always looking for something else!!
    good luck with ur search....
    Qwaider,

    I have an idea. Why don't you trade with a married guy for say a month, to see if it's right for you. I am sure if you post something on craigslist.org, or even your blog, offering "freedom" for the guy and whatever you have to offer to the wife. (the wife must agree to the month long adventure. I do not want to sound like a chauvinistic pig)

    I sense that you would like to get married, or else you wouldn't write about the subject every other day. But, I think that you have not met that wonderful soul that makes your heart race.
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    • Moey
    • Windows Internet Explorer
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    • On: 7/3/2007 8:06:58 AM
    stay single a7la
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    • miss sea lover
    • Windows Internet Explorer
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    • On: 7/3/2007 8:31:40 AM
    Hi..this is my 1st time to write here, and I’m not a blogger..at least up to now..i was reading ur blogs..and thinking about it….u were so sure that u don’t like marriage..with tons of reasons..and then ..it is the opposite exactly.. deep inside me..i knew that u pretend not wanting to get married..u try to convince   urself  that u don’t want it..may be cuz u can’t just find the one to share ur life with.. but this is not the thing I was really thinking of..i was thinking…guys r so lucky…when they don’t get married..they come with million of reasons…and it may convince some of us…but for us..i mean girls…we can’t just use  those reasons(u know them) as excuses for not getting married.…I think life is not that fair after all…..finally ..wish u the best..and to find happiness whatever u decide to do…
    Come on ..I was just kidding there!! Don't take it against me :'(

    Whisperer... I'm still clean. I haven't touched a cigarette since Feb 18th :)
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    • Disaster
    • Windows Internet Explorer
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    • On: 7/3/2007 3:39:31 PM
    انته بتفكر اكتيييييييييييييييير

    خف على حالك و على عقلك بتمشي الأمور
    One day you will when i dont know.
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    • sam
    • Windows Internet Explorer
    • Said
    • On: 7/3/2007 11:54:25 PM
    when u least expect it you will find that perfect person...of course nobody is perfect...bas u know what i mean:) good luck....I am soo looking forward to hear about u and married life one day inshallah..after all those mean things u've been saying about us married people..shame on u!:)
    just be optimistic and life will smile to you like never before.. wishing you all the best :)
    dont think much and twakal 3ala allah, the best love comes when ur looking for something else.

    plus rest assured inno no 2 experiences are the same, not everyone is happy and not everyone is miserable, w bil nihayeh ppl chose what they wanna be, im a firm believer in the power of man in matters of the mind and subconscience. ur in control dayman and thing is ppl forget that.

    when the time comes u will know, nothing wrong with figuring ways to go about it, maybe ur best bet is traditional marriages, or maybe its meeting someone online who is arab and in the us and maybe u meet and it just happens! find what suits u and go for it, just dont force it. kullo bwa2to 7elo :)

    all the best Q, bless!
    قلت الحل بفمك كل عقدة و لها منشار و كل مشكلة و لها حل و انت مكبر الموضوع كتير لو احكيلك همي تضحك و تحس نفسك في احسن الحالات قول الحمدلله اولا لانك فتى التاني لانك عايش و اسال الله ان يفقك و انظر الى من هم اقل منك  ستهون همومك  
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