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Long lost lovers...

By: Qwaider

On:Saturday, June 30, 2007 6:26:24 PM
In:Thoughts
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I don't understand what drives some people to search in their old books for people they knew .. didn't work out ... and both have moved on ... do we subliminally miss people after a while? Or did the experiences that have passed by us after that cause us to really value the good old old days and relationships?

You're going by your business, and all of a sudden you receive a call, an email, an IM from an old lover. Or someone who used to be very close to you. You'll probably be shocked for the first few moments ... and by the time you start collecting your composure you start remembering the good old days

It's interesting how old relationships seem to find their way to surface into your life from time to time. Mostly uninvited, and in some instances, they show up at the worst of times, when you have really moved on and no longer interested in the whole thing

People seem to forget what made the whole thing tank. They forgot the pain and suffering (if it was in limited amounts) and kind of reminiscence over the good times. It doesn't really take long for the very things that parted them to show it's face....

But sometimes, people part on good terms, for external circumstances against both people's wishes..would it work out? no body knows!

If you've been around the block few times, chances are there will be people from your past popping up every now and then ... Are you prepared to deal with them? Is your current significant other tolerant and accepting to such variables?.... Or is the emergence of such a long lost love is an omen of doom on the current relationship?

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Memories....

#1
secratea
Said
On: 6/30/2007 10:28:06 PM

If the previous relationship failed for circumstances (external reasons) and the current relationship does not compete with that previous one in its internal values (passion, love, sharing, caring..etc), I think it can surface and create true confusion.

I have never seen somebody who would want to go back into a relationship that failed (especially after working hard on overcoming the pains) even if it is back with new light, but at least it will make one question the current relationship in term of reconsidering lots of annoying aspects in it. The saddest part is when the previous relationship offered way much meaning, love, and care, than the current one.. I think, it would be healthy to reconsider the current one... However, not always does one acknowledge the truth, and therefore would prefer living in a dream bubble for as long as it doesn't burst.... that means some know how instable their relationship is, but cant do anything about it.. what do you think Mr. Q?

#2
Qwaider
Said
On: 7/1/2007 12:30:39 AM

I personally think there's no use in going back ... Just a waste of emotions. Then the very reasons that lead to the issues back then, would surface again
Some people say that "they might have learned their lesson" but I'm yet to witness that myself

#3
Verbal Alchemy
Said
On: 7/1/2007 12:27:55 PM

when my man and i broke up 3 years ago coz my parents denied his proposal for reasons i find unreasonable in the face of the gr8 love we had (the reason being he isnt pal/jor and a few months younger) i was waiting for the coincidence that will bring us back together.. whether self initiated, or fate's work.. and when it happened, we dint even wait to blink before going back to being who we r, 2 ppl gr8ly in love.

Q, when and if u get hit by cupids arrow, u will get that there is nothing called waste of emotions when its true love.

#4
Qwaider
Said
On: 7/1/2007 6:45:31 PM

Verbal alchemy, my heart is like Swiss cheese :) I don't need Cupid's help to see through the lie called "love"
It's plausible mutual benefit that is lasting... Many confuse it for love

And ta3ali hon .. I didn't know you had "A man".. I'm calling you sneaky from now on

#5
Nour
Said
On: 7/2/2007 10:27:57 AM

If you love someone, let them go. If they return, they are... broken

#6
Verbal Alchemy
Said
On: 7/2/2007 11:53:04 AM

havent u read 'a tale of two entities on my blog' tsu2 tsu2 tsu2 lol!

#7
spirit
Said
On: 12/30/2007 3:02:55 PM

u r really strong to say about X life and memories ... for me i wouldn`t remember anything and i`ll close the door infront of anything would remember me about past.