Stop telling me what to think!
- By: Qwaider
- On:Friday, January 19, 2007 7:25:10 AM
- In:Thoughts
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It's really pathetic when someone, anyone attempts to influence the way a 16 year old or older tries to think. Yes sure, parents, spouses, lovers, friends and bosses have probably been doing it since man climbed out of that little cosy cave.
What people fail to understand is that some people have their own knowledge and experience that corroborates their findings in this life.
How would anyone like to deal with someone else's idea of anything? Yes, my mom is fantastic but that asparagus still tastes like crap! No matter how good the whole world says.
Religious matters are no different, many people have their own convictions, understandings and interpretations. One side is always trying to shove their primitive or incomplete ideas down the other throat.
Since this is not the middle ages nor is it an inquisition. No one has the right or monopoly over what's right and what is wrong. The truth is people are smart and the best you can do is lay down the facts and allow people to make their own decisions concerning what they want to believe.
We all have our very skewed versions of just about everything. One mind would explain something in a positive encouraging way. Making it pleasant and welcoming for people. While others do everything in their power to push away people while thinking they've got the moral high grounds or the comprehension of right, when all they're doing is push their cause further and further away from the hearts. In effect, they might have won the argument, but lost people's hearts.
Unfortunately, this was the case since the dawn of humanity. It's sad to know that revered imams like Ahmad Ibin Hanbal, was tortured half way to death and imprisoned for his ideas. Same happened to Imam Malek for his ideas. If we were living at those times, many would have believe the Khalifa, who is Amer El Mu'minin, or in other words, the religious ruler of the world. When they were absolutely wrong.
In this day and age, people are allowed to have thier own ideas and interpretations are anything but set. There is two different terms I would like to point to in the Islamic science of Quran. And that is Interpretation and Explanation. The Explanation is fixed explanation for something, that never changes and usually it's a guideline or a rule. It might also be a method of warship. As for interpretations, these are allowed to be interpreted, and re-interpreted as we know more and so on.
I really urge everyone to try and be tolerant and harbor diversity especially when it comes to ideas. No one has a monopoly over whats right or moral and most certainly no one is right all the time. Yes, including the Imam who issues a fatwa about something!
Memories....
Thanks for shedding the light on one of the most painful realities.
S.N, I have to say, that is one of the best comments I've had all day!. Thank you
We just need people to be tolerant of our views and harbor diversity especially when it comes to our ideas. After all we too have our own knowledge and experience that corroborates our findings in this life that Muslims, Arabs, and Blacks should go home to Arabia and Africa.
We are behind you.
Warmest Regards,
The Grand Wizard of the Highest Order of the Union of Zionists and White Supremacists.
Go buy a massive truck! I hear it helps.. But you'll never be able to reach the average Arab or Black. Poor you! But hey, women can laugh thier hearts out when you undress! Now that's quite an attraction!
people can be stupid sometimes , and most of them think that their views and belifes are the right ones , and everything else is WRONG , and am sick of it , alot of ppl i talk to try to force their ideas , and when i disagree with them on matters like religion for example i become into an "atheist" in thier eyes , and they even say it to my face .