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My advice to women...

By: Qwaider

On:Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:47:19 PM
In:Thoughts
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A specific comment I wrote in response to a stressful post by Dino$ (with a dollar sign), seemed to get higher approval ratings than George Dubya. And since it's such a rare occasion that I get such overwhelming approval (I have to admit, it was rather overwhelming, especially coming from fantastic women like Summer, Kinzi and Reem) .. I decided to generalize it and forward it to all the women at the foot hills of marriage ...

Anyway, here's the comment ... and my advice to women

1) Nothing [materialistic] matters in a good marriage, not the wedding, not the dress, not the ring. What matters is two great people planning to spend the rest of their lives together ~~and~~ each wanting to make the OTHER happy.

2) Don't exaggerate the wedding, you can never please everyone. Make sure the TWO most important people in the world (You and you fiance, Allah ykhallekom la ba3ad) are happy. Expensive weddings will leave a very bitter taste in both your mouths - that could linger for years- Unless you can ABSOLUTELY afford it

3) Your married life is just like your life now, only WAY BETTER, Enjoy it girl, you're being promoted to a Queen! Yes, you heard me right, you're being promoted to the Queen of your own life. You'll no longer be the daughter, but the Queen of the house. So yes, your life as you know it will end. But a new (and hopefully, Ya rab, better) life will begin.

4) You'll only have to worry about being married and "that it's too much work" after you have babies. Before that, it's an endless honey moon (fingers crossed). When you do have babies, you'll fly to a higher level of happiness you've never experienced before, but with that comes the added responsibility of being a mother and still the Queen of your own kingdom, [and to your little pretty babies, you are the source of life ... I'm sure it will be such an amazing experience]

So,

ENJOY IT! Be happy about it, and don't let anyone ruin it for you.
Plan it like YOU want it ...
Do it like YOU feel is right!
Even if you decide that you want to have the wedding bare foot on a beach with only 10 guests from each side and then get swept away to the honey moon, feel free to do it. (and by you, I mean the two of you)

It's YOUR crowning ceremony and the only two that count are YOU and your King... Everything and Everyone else (with all due respect), mean absolutely nothing. No matter how important

Allah yhanneekom (God bless)

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Memories....

#1
Abed Hamdan
Said
On: 1/10/2007 10:25:32 PM

بدنا نصيحة للشباب برضو...

;)

#2
Qwaider
Said
On: 1/10/2007 10:53:29 PM

نصيحة للشباب... اسهل بكتيييييييير ... تتجوزوش يا مسخّميين

#3
Summer
Said
On: 1/10/2007 11:00:39 PM

very funny advice for el shabab!!!
Thanks for recognizing the fantastic women on the blogsphere!!

#4
Abed Hamdan
Said
On: 1/10/2007 11:06:11 PM

يازلمة قطعت رزقة النسوان هيك !!!

#5
Dima
Said
On: 1/10/2007 11:22:09 PM

ummm talking is easy I guess... but you , me and we all know that this is not possible... in our society EVERYONE has to contribute with an idea..a thought... it doesn't matter if you like it or not or if they have the right or not.. it just happens!

#6
Qwaider
Said
On: 1/10/2007 11:25:24 PM

I knew my "approval" Karma is not going to last ... I knew it .. I knew it!

#7
kinzi
Said
On: 1/11/2007 8:47:14 AM

Qwaider, this was worth a post, and thanks for the plug for us married women who know!

May God bless you with a bride who shares your heart-beat.

#8
Qwaider
Said
On: 1/11/2007 8:53:24 AM

Heartbeat too :(??? So the house, the car and everything I own is not enough??! God you women are so demanding

//if anyone was stupid enough not to get the joke above, please leave this blog right now, find any building higher than 35 floors (if you can count that high) and jump and rid this world from your genes!

#9
Tamara
Said
On: 1/11/2007 9:28:09 AM

Good advice : )

lol @ //if anyone was stupid enough not to get the joke above, please leave this blog right now, find any building higher than 35 floors (if you can count that high) and jump and rid this world from your genes!

#10
SimSim
Said
On: 1/11/2007 12:08:25 PM

well good advices but u want someone to Apply them :D

#11
Qwaider
Said
On: 1/11/2007 12:40:07 PM

Exactly SimSim, if everyone just applied them. But we do what we can, and advise people the best we can

#12
Mish
Said
On: 1/12/2007 12:51:13 AM

GREAT GREAT ADVICE!@!!! subhana'Allah!

#13
kinzi
Said
On: 1/12/2007 10:19:08 AM

He, he Qwaider, I was walking up the stairs of that building when I finally got it...but I had to switch gears to think like an Arab male!

#14
Diana
Said
On: 1/14/2007 10:16:52 AM

ya 3aini 3aleek, I can't agree more. I was about to talk about the same thing too, I'm about to get married too you know and I've been thinking about these stuff a lot lately.