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LEOPARD NEVER CHANGES ITS SPOTS!

  • By: Red Rose

  • On:Thursday, December 14, 2006 12:44:14 AM
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    Dealing with diverse variant characters highlight this issue frequently.

    leo

     

    Why still have fixed idea about certain people believing that they never might be changed; stingy never can be generous, careless couldn't be ambitious or who deceived you once hardly expect from him/her to being sincere as well as cheater always cheater.

    Well, lets shed light on positive characteristics. Sometimes we can find people change from good to bad ones; someone kind becomes very greedy and selfish fascinated by glittering gold and luxury. Applying this to the same formula, If good models can be villain what prevents villain to be good ?

    Maybe It's related to the first impression we get and thinking It's not easy to replace it with another specific image again specially when we had bad experience with.

    So, the good is it originally good? the villain couldn't change and when some good achieved we classify as exception since it's out of their nature or what we got used to, keeping describing that as wolf in sheep's clothing.

    It's controversial matter as well as subjective. If "bad" people (If we have the right to classify bad and good of course) can get trust and real belief in them can they be changed?,it might be hard but not impossible since there is nothing more depressing to judge people in irrational skeptic way all the time.

    Still I couldn't find the answer. What do you think folks leopard will never change it's spots?

    Red Rose

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    • Danah
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    • On: 12/14/2006 9:35:40 AM
    I think the possibility of change is always there Red Rose .. many people are affected by surrounding circumstances . sometimes people who have been around "bad" people for a good deal of their lives , loose the ability to judge what's good and what's bad .. but when you place them with good company , they start to change .. it could be relative though ..

    but the idea is valid .. and people do change ..good ones can turn to villains and bad ones can start acting good !
    Sometimes I think we have to give chance and expect the good, but for instance I don't think Bush or Sharon can change their spots! we have common saying in Arabic "El mnee7 mnee7 wel 3atel 3atel" or "danab el kalb a3waj law 7atena bi 2aleb", I don't know If this is true or not.
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    • Laila
    • Windows Internet Explorer
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    • On: 1/6/2007 1:14:30 AM
    hello, I dont think all characteristics are part of our genetic makeup as the leoperd and his spots. So, yes I do believe people can change, I was painfully shy, and would never say a word in company... now the challenge is to try and shut me up! :)

    I enjoyed ur post :)
    They say that first impression is the last impression; yet, I believe that first impression can be misleading and false to a very great extent! So people do change, and this change might be positive or negative.
    I think the critical point sometimes comes when we had bad experience with some people, could we easily change the bad impression we got about. here it's the most difficult to trust them again giving them another chance.
    Tks Laila and secratea for sharing us your points of view there.
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