Social demotion!
- By: Qwaider
- On:Thursday, November 23, 2006 9:18:51 AM
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We all go through phases. Physically, psychologically, and socially. It depends on where you are, your atmosphere, your past experience, and many other things. But the most noticeable ones are the cases where you feel you've hit a point where you have actually went BACK instead of forward. I'm talking about social status demotion!
It's hard to go back from one status to the other, I recently experienced the demotion from a "Man" to a "Son" which are two very distinct phases in a person's life.
I have been living independently on my own for longer than I can remember. Yet, hold the love and respect of my family near and dear to my heart. In any case, It's mostly due to my distance from the family members and homes that this feeling of independence have developed
No matter what I try, the minute I step into the family house, I go back to being the youngest, the Son. I'm no longer the independent Man I was few moments ago.
Most noticeably would be the criticism of post or future decisions, and worse, others imposing their own decisions sometimes even without my consent.
It's interesting to see the way the world works from different sides of the world. On one side, you are the supreme ruler, the highest authority in your own little existence. While on the other hand you're a pawn with limited autonomy yet, you still have superiors and must obey and follow the path set in front of you.
I don't know If I am going to start listening now, I've always been the rebellious one... But is that about to change? Is it time? Is it the age? Social atmosphere ... or what exactly!?
Memories....
and by the way , I believe that the demotin is not our choice , elzorof heyye elly btefredo 3alaina .... I guess!
Nice Blog u have.
what Tamara and 7ala said is exactly what i wanted to say, no one want to anger their parents and i don't think you will find happiness if you put WHO you are on a shelf i can say that from my experience. Listening don't have an age! things will be hard in the begining but it gets better as time goes by.
Yes, That's right. Sometimes we don't really have a choice
Tamara
Yeah, Diplomacy, might help. Yet, being the king of your own life for a while then not even having the ability to object is just not fun
Lilly
Hi there, and welcome New visitor, Welcome always.
Summer
Maybe I will, but I kinda don't like it.
salim 3al familyaaa
It's not like it seems. All is good .. :)