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Social demotion!

  • By: Qwaider

  • On:Thursday, November 23, 2006 9:18:51 AM
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    Rated 4.2/5 stars (88 votes cast) Thanks for your vote!

    We all go through phases. Physically, psychologically, and socially. It depends on where you are, your atmosphere, your past experience, and many other things. But the most noticeable ones are the cases where you feel you've hit a point where you have actually went BACK instead of forward. I'm talking about social status demotion!

    It's hard to go back from one status to the other, I recently experienced the demotion from a "Man" to a "Son" which are two very distinct phases in a person's life.

    I have been living independently on my own for longer than I can remember. Yet, hold the love and respect of my family near and dear to my heart. In any case, It's mostly due to my distance from the family members  and homes that this feeling of independence have developed

    No matter what I try, the minute I step into the family house, I go back to being the youngest, the Son. I'm no longer the independent Man I was few moments ago.

    Most noticeably would be the criticism of post or future decisions, and worse, others imposing their own decisions sometimes even without my consent.

    It's interesting to see the way the world works from different sides of the world. On one side, you are the supreme ruler, the highest authority in your own little existence. While on the other hand you're a pawn with limited autonomy yet, you still have superiors and must obey and follow the path set in front of you.

    I don't know If I am going to start listening now, I've always been the rebellious one... But is that about to change? Is it time? Is it the age? Social atmosphere ... or what exactly!?

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    • #1
    • 7ala
    • Windows Internet Explorer
    • Said
    • On: 11/23/2006 10:03:35 AM
    There is no certain age or time for listening , Its always time to listen !

    and by the way , I believe that the demotin is not our choice , elzorof heyye elly btefredo 3alaina .... I guess!
    • #2
    • Tamara
    • Windows Internet Explorer
    • Said
    • On: 11/23/2006 10:15:40 AM
    Qwaider, I have been there more or less and I will give you the fruit of my experience : ) DEPLOMASY!! do what you want to do, while they think you are doing what they want you to do. Its quite easy once you get the hang of it, no one wants to anger their parents but at the same time you can't put who you are on a shelf: ) good luck !
    • #3
    • Lilly
    • Windows Internet Explorer
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    • On: 11/23/2006 12:42:24 PM
    Hi there :)

    Nice Blog u have.

    what Tamara and 7ala said is exactly what i wanted to say, no one want to anger their parents and i don't think you will find happiness if you put WHO you are on a shelf i can say that from my experience. Listening don't have an age! things will be hard in the begining but it gets better as time goes by.
    For the time being, enjoy being the son, the youngest in the household and have fun!! soon you will be back to your life and being the one and only to report to! take care and enjoy.
    7ala
    Yes, That's right. Sometimes we don't really have a choice
    Tamara
    Yeah, Diplomacy, might help. Yet, being the king of your own life for a while then not even having the ability to object is just not fun
    Lilly
    Hi there, and welcome New visitor, Welcome always.
    Summer
    Maybe I will, but I kinda don't like it.
    ya shamati feeek ya samer! eshrab ya 7obi! lol ...eno u know that i'm teasing u ;)
    salim 3al familyaaa
    Ya Shamatet abla taza fiyya!
    It's not like it seems. All is good .. :)
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