Brain washing wives
Sometimes, I feel sorry for some women. Usually university graduates, from good families. Then the minute they start talking you realize that they have been brain washed by their husbands. Turned into copies of their men. Saying the same stupidities, and cancelling everything about them that makes them individuals!
It's sad really!
What would compel a woman to become a carbon copy of the guy she got married to? It totally beats me! But I've seen it happen. It keeps happening everyday.
To tell you the truth, I haven't experienced it in my life so far. My parents have been married for almost 50 years and they're still very distinct individuals. They don't agree on many things, and argue most of the time. But neither tries to cancel the other person!
How boring life gets when you end up marrying your own self!
The same thing I've seen with my sisters, and my own wife. They refuse to be "overwritten" by a man's personality.
But I understand why some men would want to cancel women's personality. It's easier when you have someone that blindly agrees with everything you say or do. But why take someone who already has a personality and force them to cancel it? Why not just get a blank canvas woman and shape her the way you want! Oops, sorry, those too are in great demand!
The state of Arab men and their families is really depressing. We really have no hope if we continue to be incomplete halves like this.
Have you noticed this too? Or are you like me few years ago, completely oblivious to the existence of this grave disease in our societies?