Dating tips: #2 Be confident

By: Qwaider

On:Monday, December 07, 2009 9:31:21 AM
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Confidence is the best chick magnet there is.

Women gravitate towards three main things, Strength, Influence and wealth. Not that women don't seek other qualities in a man. But certain things can be considered secondary. For example, Male's handsomeness can be sought after but if the male doesn't show one signs of strength, influence or wealth. They're usually dumped tragically!

If you come to think about it, the way males were shaped over the eons made them grow in these categories.

To understand why these three and not anything else, I'll explain some more... However, I'll tie all of these to confidence upfront. Confidence is a byproduct of the above. A strong guy is usually confident, an influential man is also very confident, same goes for wealth.

Tip #1

The whole psychological reasoning behind these three qualities is too long to explain, however, in simple terms. Women look for someone who will be able to provide for her and her offspring. Forget about what the modern woman thinks. Underneath it all, the cave woman mentality still exists. It's probably imprinted in our DNA.

The offspring of a wealthy, influential, or a strong male of the tribe have the highest probability of surviving. Back when the resources were scarce, and humans had to do hard labor just to stay alive. A strong man would be able to protect the woman in the prolonged period when she can't fend for her self or young.

Confidence once again, is the byproduct of these. Women are drawn to it. They seek it. They want it because it usually indicates strong qualities. Qualities that will help and support the woman (if not also indulge and please her)

So guys, if you have confidence issues and lady issues. Now you know why!

Again, I leave this article to the lady readers to critique.

Memories....

#1
MC
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On: 12/7/2009 12:09:47 PM
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"Underneath it all, the cave woman mentality still exists."

Do you really want to go into that and open the chapter of "cave men mentality"?
The choice of words annoyed me, yet I agree on everything else. Confidence, dominance, power, security, they all matter.

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Qwaider
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On: 12/7/2009 8:10:34 PM
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Oh I will not argue with you at all on male's cavemen mentality. It's still there! Trust me
Men are much simpler. They go after their needs. They need to be fulfilled that is all that is to it. Women, need more, in fact, women are more evolved socially and emotionally than men.

I'm sorry my words (or choice of words) annoyed or provoked you. For the lack of better terms, remember this article is directed towards males. So I gotta keep it as simple as possible so that the majority would get it :)