If you want to wear Hijab

You know something? No one on the face of this planet knows where they will land in the afterlife. No one! We as humans (regardless of our religions or lack of) have a moral obligation to be the best we can be. (Who obligated us? God, and if you don't believe in God, consider it Natural selection)

This being "good" drive defines how we deal with people, and how we see ourselves. It also shapes how we project our self (Id, Ego and Superego if you want to get technical), this being "good" comes in so many shapes and sizes. From educational excellence to following moral codes to abiding by the law to adhering to religion, to every behavior that we see. Even if the choice for that behavior was only clear at the subconscious level.

We might come to good terms with what we feel. We might start feeling that we're doing everything and therefore we expect the promised rewards, or what I will call "A shallow understanding of religion (or any moral code for that matter)".

There is no reward for telling the truth! You're not going to suddenly win the lottery, and your life is not going to suddenly become fantastic without a single problem for a few kind acts that you have done. But here's what will cause you to feel more depressed, anything you do, and everything that you might do, no matter how great, is not a guarantee that you will be rewarded, now or in the afterlife (IF you believe in the afterlife)

Consequently, being "religious" doesn't make one better than other people. Wearing Hijab doesn't make one more religious, or more modest in dressing. Wearing Hijab provocatively is an insult to Hijab to begin with, so if someone really doesn't want to wear it. She shouldn't. For god's sake, DO NOT WEAR THE HIJAB if you don't want to wear it.

And to think that somehow magically because you're wearing what you "think" is Hijab would give you a license to start judging other women as being sluts or going to hell is beyond arrogance. It's beyond stupidity, it's sick!

In fact, even if you were wearing Hijab properly... That still doesn't give you the right to judge people and condemn them like that!

We all judge. I'm the first one to do so. But I don't judge based on looks or behavior and I most certainly don't say people are going to land in hell (except Atheists, but that's a running joke between me and Hani Oaid, whom I miss dearly)

I guess I'm just frustrated, no make that "disappointed" in people, they pray for couple of days, and then they turn to you and start patronizing and preaching you ... Like they just graduated from Al Azhar!

And for those "thinking" they're wearing Hijab, your cloths are not office safe... Some strippers cover up more in their off hours.