for one thing moey, nas, and Fadi are all still on QP. So no you're not using your sites to get back at those who criticizing you. In fact I actually prefer the approach of using someones name to criticize as opposed to writing anonymously. From what I've seen you're usually polite even when you criticize or strongly disagree.

Lol mab3oos, I didn't even remember kalimero was the bata al-soda!  Is that where the term came from ?

Qwaider your doing an amazing service with Qwaider planet and I admire that. there is no such thing as cyberbullying, just dumb twats who don't know where the X (big red one)is.  

Keep it up, waiting for new projects

It's not that you're a bully, but if you remember by long "two cents" comment, people tend to take sides in an argument and it's usually against you.

Those days are over. People may still hold grudges, it's up to you whether or not you want to close unresolved conflicts.

But just like you commented on Mai's post, you're just letting them get to you.

QWaider, you founded QP, but your success with it is a sign of being nominated, elected and re-elected as 'Mayor' by the folks in the 'sphere'.

Ditto Hani. I'd much rather have you 'shred' me openly with a differing opinion than the anon trolls who come and attack personally leaving a fake email address. I've never felt 'shredded', btw. Irritated a couple times, but I know I do my share of irritating too! :)

Part of what makes it fun is that we are all a bunch of strong-willed people with our own opinions. We clash, we get over it, we still bring our toys and play. As far as I know, NO ONE has ever taken it a physical fight into the off-line world or even hacked into another site maliciously, which is quite something!

Attacking an idea is not wrong, but attacking an idea ignorantly just to avoid accepting defeat is wrong!

It's good to hear that you are being fair, and the existence of the people that disagree with you on QP proves that you are fair.

Thanks for the wonderful community.

P.S. Lol @ mab3oos

You're not a bully, Qwaider!

im 100% sure that u believe in yr self and know exactly what u r doing .. u founded the QP which is a great forum for all of us 2 share our ideas, thoughts , and life experiences .. just keep it up and thx 4 everything w27san 7al hoo enak "e6nesh"
u rock :)

I understand it's difficult for you to overlook their attacks. When they do attack, count to ten before you comment back. I am sure they actually do not have any solid evidence of you bullying them. An instance of perceived bullying brought up from a conflict of opinions is immature on their part.

A dear friend of mine (who is a fellow blogger) and I were discussing a similar issue that arose recently on the Syrian blogs. An argument between some people triggered an all-out war because of opinions conflicting. It's immature and laughable if you look at it as an outsider.

Conflict between people generally arises when any of the two parties do not attempt to understand the thoughts and beliefs of the other person that lead to rise of the different opinions. Take Hani for instance. He's an atheist and vocal about it, and people attack him. But if you look at his history (which he wonderfully portrayed) you'd understand how he thinks and his thought system. There's absolutely nothing wrong with him or anyone else. It's simply our belief that "we are always right" that makes other people wrong.

Am not directing this to you Samer, am directing this to your attackers.

Your conflicts with people I believe mostly involve something to do with homosexuality, what women/men should and should not do, as well as criticizing aspects of Jordanian (or general Arab) society as well other aspects that affect us all in ways we don't always perceive (ie web and browser security and anonymity in general).

If I am not KJ and just another dope who passes here I'd say you're ma3tooh. But I know that security is your field and it is your concern, and you're bringing forth the issues for us to be aware of it. As a Jordanian, you are also entitled to speak of your culture and what you believe is affecting its progress.

What people fail to understand that criticism comes from two things: hate (which is just plain baseless bashing) or love, which comes from a thorough observation + your beliefs/thoughts/ideas/thinking system + a formulated opinion serving as an attempt to address a situation.

Even if someone else's opinion is flat-out wrong by most mortal standards, it should be dealt with with respect. Afterall - it's just an opinion.

see baby, you keep on telling me that people do stupid things just to get mad, and by doing that I’m allowing them to get into me, and you are giving these people too much attention, way more than they actually deserve.
You are not a bully, you are just honest and straight forward, ma 3endak laf o dawaran, you say out loud what a lot of cowards think in their heads, but ofcourse they would never dare say it in people's face, so they go as anonymous
wala yhemak, when any of these people who attacks pay eshi mn jeebet aboohom 3ala elli bte3malo ba3dean yefta7o temhom!

Woow I did not know speaking your mind could be this complicated...

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do not pay attention for those who attacks you ,,
You know ur self ad you speak your mind , and this is your view point ,,,

no mattar what they  said ,,,
You are not bully ,,,,,,
keep posting the way you want ,no one have right to judge you throught your posts ,,,,,...

mm, HappY EID to YOU & maIoush w yn3aad 3aleekum b el se7a w el salameh :D

Hey, Qwaider, I'm in trouble again over that Mona/Racism post. Can you help me out? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG