There is nothing wrong with you, straight hetro sex is just as disgusting as gay sex, it's the hormones and testosterone in your body that makes you enjoy and want straight sex.

You can't choose if your kids are gonna be homosexuals or not because it's biological more than social.

IT IS Fu**n disgusting, actually if you don't find it disgusting then there IS something wrong with you .. and you know what I HATE GAYS .. and I will never accept them as regular humans .. for me they are just "things" with mental disorder ...

Now about your kids, I totally agree with you, it is all about the way you raise them and their ability to make the right decisions in their life, because let me tell you something my friend, Homosexuality is a CHOICE. the theory that it is something biological is a very poor one with no proof, actually it is just like the evolution theory. I personally believe that some gay came up with this theory to make himself feel better about his twisted faggy life.

"the Boston Globe published an article on February 7, 1999 which was reprinted by permission in the April 1999 NARTH Bulletin. It is an important article because it contributes to the growing body of evidence that homosexuality is not simply "genetic."
Serious scientists have long known that a simply "genetic" cause for homosexuality was highly unlikely, but the mass media conveyed the misimpression of genetic causation to the general public. In the Globe article, prominent researchers admit the distinct limitations of the "born that way" theory."

You and other ppl who believe that homosexuality is not a choice are just victims of the mass media.

yes, there is something wrong with you.

Apparently, you have never seen girl on girl action :)

when gayness includes women its ok, coz everything bout us is amazing! its only when its bout men that it gets disgusting!

im not homophobic sara7a, w ma bihemni who's gay or not, as long as they're decent with me and friendly and keep me out of their private business.. i dowanna listen to anything. but then again, i dowanna listen to hetero's experiences either! to each his own.

I don't believe that homosexuality is purely biological. People "could" be born with a "gay tendency" or "gay gene factor" if you wish to call it, but it won't do it's business if the social environment did not allow it.

It's a nature vs nurture kind of deal.

There is a case in a psychology book about such a case where a man was gay because he followed his gay tendencies and was not raised properly. He knew something was inherently wrong but didn't know what to do about it.

Cutting a long story short, the therapy involved replacing the association of pleasure.

So while there may be a biological "tendency" for homosexuality it has to be reinforced for it to take effect (or rather, lack of reinforcement to go the other way)

KJ, r u serious!? it cant possibly be genetic or a 'born by nature' kinda thing! God created adam and eve, not adam and steve. fa i7na bil fi6ra hetero.

Meh ... It's perfectly fine to be disgusted by the act. naturally its not something that attracts you, so you naturally don't like it. It doesn't get problematic until you are against the adoption of children (then again you are against all adoption since you are a muslim). because you inherently believe that gay's aren't able to raise or nurture and the cause of homosexuality is due to how a person was brought up. On both occasions did you consider the chance that you might be thoroughly mistaken ?
At the end of the day, you have absolutely no control over what orientation your son or daughter would be. And people don't need to impose their morality on "god" so stop claiming "god" can't do this or that.

Verbal Alchemy, I didn't explicitly say born by nature, which is why I used the quotations. To my knowledge there is no gay gene (or sexual orientation gene) defined.

The tendency results from the levels of hormones in the mother's womb during pregnancy. If, in cases, a mother did not "clean up well" in terms of hormones after having a daughter, if she gets pregnant with a son he may get some oestrogen overdose, but that does NOT make him gay.

I am not certified to verify the above theory though. But let's assuming it is true, tendencies are tendencies and can therefore be avoided and changed with proper raising

Qwaider,
Do you actualy care what two men or women do at night in their bedroom? why should you? You might find two men or two women together discusing, but what about str8 couple that bring a third to their bed, or who switch wives?

Anas, if I was you I won't jump into hating people like this as you wil surprised when you know that there are many Gay men and women who act and appear sraight and you will be more than surprised to find out that a best friend you have, or a colleague at work, or any maried man is Gay. Yes, many Gay people are married and are inside the closet. What if someone realy close to you happened to be Gay, would you stop talking to them?

For all,
You can never stop your kdis from being Homosexuals, eve nif you raised them correctly and surrounded them with faith and relegion. People are born like this. In the old years, nbeing Gay was a taboo and even though we still had Homosexuality before the begining of time. Today's culture is more loose with homosexuality and thats why we see more Gays out in the public than ever before but whatever we do, that will never stop people form being born gays and lesbians.

I find the body of a woman much more beautiful than a man's so a man who would chose another man over a woman simply has poor taste. Kinda like a man who chooses to wear ummm say a red cape!

Of course taste is subjective, and if women were to share my thoughts on the female body being more attractive, where would they leave their men ?

Of course seeing as I consider it a matter of choice, the social stigma (both in the east and west) will always be a factor.

Unfortunately your idea of deliberately raising your kids to ensure they won't be homosexual usually involves enforcing their sexual role types on them. (something like, the girl get's the pink room with the floral pattern, and the boy gets the blue room with the space ship etc...). I like to think there is a happy middle somewhere between totally gender typing your kids and the other extreme of leaving them without guidance.

As you made it very clear, there is a difference between being repulsed by the sexual act (matter of taste) and discriminating against the people (matter of human rights).

You say give them all rights other than adoption ? really ? so you don't mind the idea of gay marriage ?

Hani, I got a black room :(

No spaceships... I got my gaming gears, some toys (including Ken from Barbie) and...... a red cape.

Am such a mess :D

KJ, a red cape ? You poor thing :)

You dissed me enough, infidel :P now you and that dermatologist wa3d are gonna get Moogled this weekend!

of course it's disgusting and it's not a biological thing no matter who said this , as a muslim homosexuality is forbidden and it's punishment is to be thrown out of a high place thats what some says> well the stiry of dead sea is a proof of that

Ahmad, why don't we throw as well our corrupted leaders, Presidents, politicians, member of parliaments, ministers, prostitues in Bars in Shemesani, Lesbians, Bi Sexuals, Married Gay men, married bi women!! Shouldn't we include those as well. I didn't know when Islam came to Arabia they had high places.

Do you actualy care what a man does in his bedroom?

if it's in his own bedroom without leting any one know about it not even a single person in the entire world then no i won't care it's now a thing etween him and god

Ali.
People are born like this.Can you tell me how?

bambam.

{then again you are against all adoption since you are a muslim).



It is simply not possible to practice immorality & inherit the Kingdom of God. Genuine love of Christ includes loving and accepting his plan for our lives, which includes being celebate if single, or faithful to your wife He provides you.

Homosexuality was the sin of Sodom, the final step of depravity in a long line of sins against God & Christ. Scripture says that ‘anyone who has this hope (the hope of Salvation in Christ) purifies himself’.

This of course, means no fornication (sex outside of marriage) adultery (sex with any one not your wife or husband) and also means no same sex relations. I know that is just anathama to todays relativistic moral progressive ear, but so be it. Only God is the Lawgiver, you can’t repeal his laws of sexuality anymore than you can repeal his law of gravity.

Now admittedly, an easy divorce attitude shown by many towards heterosexual marriage, has fueled a generation of cast-off children who have lacked role models and are thus gender & sexuality confused, and are therefore drawn inexorably towards deviant sexuality

Hamede thats fair enough you would believe that if you are christian, Qwaider believes a similar thing because he is Muslim. me on the other hand i'm not religious and in that sense i have a different set of beliefs. you can never convince one religious person of the superior morality of a different religion and hence the solution is to refer to civil law. in civil law there is no need to be restricted by divine laws... that is if that's the case and there is one (here since he's in the states that context applies).

"Qwaider said:You expect me to suggest to my son to go after girls?"

No, enforcing sexual type roles isn't about setting your kids up with sex partners. It's about teaching/encouraging boys to do manly things (baseball, hunting, throwing a punch) and teaching girls the opposite (cooking, decor, makeup). This can be done through everything from the toys/clothes you buy them to what you choose to discuss with them, which school you send them to etc...

Too much role typing and you could potentially destroy the next Baryshnikov or Clayderman. Not enough and you could end up with Richard Simmons for a son!

KJ, I'll look forward to it :P


Qwaider about the marriage question. I have no problem with the ceremony or the title, just assuming the legal status, tax exemptions, etc....

Why the assumption that all homosexuals "practice" the activities? Religiously, you do realise that the punishment for both practising "sodomy" and "fornication" are the same, as far as I know...

You're judging homosexuality from a very ignorant, dusty, cloudy perspective. You just believe that all homosexuals fulfil the stereotype of being promiscuous and running around the block rubbing their arses against men. Well too bad that's not the case. I don't like generalising, but Lesbian women are one of the most articulate and understanding women out there...

I personally believe that homosexuals are born with it, wouldn't be so apparent at the beginning, but it develops just by the time the child starts to develop their sexual identity.

But forcing gender roles down their throat as Hani mentioned is definitely a big factor.

So brighten up that little dark place in your skull, interact more with them and know about them more before judging ones you see on TV. No need for that prejudice, come from a neutral point of view and THEN form your ideas towards them. Plus, if you're too comfortable with your own sexuality and you know you prefer, why be so threatened by homosexuals?

Try steroids for a week or so and you will understand what I mean by sex is disgusting weather it is straight or gay.

It is the hormones in your body that make you attracted to the appreciated sex, if you do steroids your biological sex appeal will decrease to a minimum which means you won't have any sexual attractions biologically.

Once you have no biological sex attractions, it's up to the social factors to work or prove that they are involved.

But unfortunately there is no social factor involved in sex attractions and that is why once you are on steroids for example (body stops producing it's own testosterone and sperm) you don't get attracted sexually to any one.

This reaches us to the conclusion that sexual attractions and preferences have nothing to do with the environment and is biological.

I'm sorry if I sounded a bit hostile, but instead of explaining yourself more in replying to comments you might want to consider being more elaborate in your posts next time and share your ideas in a more articulate manner rather than just insisting on using the word "disgusting". What does "disgusting" mean in that sense? What does it constitute of? And what exactly tackles this sensation? When you witness what specifically?

I'm sure since you've been a blogger for a while you have the capability to express yourself better, so do it before you mislead any more people and try to present a clear definition whether you don't mind them or you are repulsed by them...fee fareg.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you for feeling the way you do toward gay activities. To put it simply, it is human nature not to agree or like everything. The world is too big and life is too complicated for that.

What does matter, though, is what you do about your disgust and how you treat the people who cause it. Personally, sexual relations between two women repulse me, but I don't judge those women. That's their business. I just don't want to have anything to do with it. Outside of that, I'm cool with them. We all have our own "sins" by which we are judged by other people. Therefore, don't unto others what you don't want others to do  unto you.

Regarding the topic of nature versus nurture relative to homosexuals, it is not a black and white issue. There are those who do choose to engage in homosexual activities, just as there are those who choose to engage in bisexual relations. However, I submit that there are those who genuinely have natural exclusive attractions toward people of their own sex. I've had talks with homosexual guys. I dared to ask them what made them homosexual. Was it a choice? How did they know? Most of the time, their initial reactions were of confusion, because it was like asking me how I became a female or whether I chose to become a female. The answer is they just are. They are the way they are and have always been that way.

Science will never completely be able to explain homosexuality, because humans are not bound by the principles that science operates under.

To me, homosexuals are my fellow human beings. I dare not cast a single stone lest it will be cast back at me. From a religious standpoint, we will all be judged on the last day. Nobody gets a pass because he/she is heterosexual.

There is something that I think we all should start practicing and that goes with diversity. We should NEVER judgle people by thier color, relegion, sex, ethnic backgournd, and sexual orientation. What is important is what this person does and cotributes to the community, work, life, country and people around him/her. The more time we waste on such superficial things the more time we go back in time.

Just love how all google ads turn into gay dating site
haha
True tho its Disgusting in the sense but people can do w/e they like.

It is absolutely amazing to me that women can be turned on by looking at other women.Should I not be turned on when I look at my,now amazing naked body that is, the temporary good looking state it is in,which by the way was never there before November 20th 2004, in the mirror,and no I did not that  day just come home from the hospital?Only thing is then I started worshiping it by a great magnitude.

I think you're a complete asshole.

What is sexuality, anyway?  I find it amazing how one can simply disregard a person for romance based on their sex.  It really perplexes me.  I am a pansexual female, and I consider myself to be gender-blind.  Most people do not look for a mate of a specific race or other factor, so why should sex matter so much?

As for you being disgusted by it, I suppose each to their own, yet I hope you do not view homosexuality as wrong.  I do rather have distaste towards coprophilia, so perhaps I am similar to you in a certain regard.  However, I don't think that people engaging in these acts are lesser beings than those not interested in that type of play.

And why shouldn't homosexuals be allowed to adopt?  There's no doubt that a loving gay couple could provide a much more satisfactory home to a child in need than their original homes.  There are so many children suffering in orphanages, and many caring gay couples who wish to raise a child.  It's a win-win situation; to think otherwise is frankly close-minded.  The homosexual couples will not be forcing their views upon their children any more than current straight couples do.  I'd much rather have a child raised with an open mind, rather than one who was taught that homosexuality is "unnatural" and "disgusting."

I respectfully disagree with your opinion, yet I understand your right to have it.  I apologize for any malice that may have been construed within this response.

(Oddly enough, I found this post through a Google search about homosexuality among animals.)

I agree, homosexual acts are nasty and disgusting. There is nothing wrong with you dude.
What irks me is when they say homosexual rights is a civil rights issue; no f@#*ing way. The only way to know if someone is gay is to ask them, no one asks me if I'm black. Being a homo boils down to a dude who likes boning other dude; who cares and who gives a crap what you do, all we ask is that you keep that filth to yourself.

yes it is nothing wrong with you sure
its very very very

homosexual

fearing the acts n people taking part on it
to stop associate with
hate
prosecute
thinking or feel they r less human
care n wanting to know "whatever"
not giving their rights
gay marriage - simply unacceptable

qwaiders answers - none of the above
but just disgusting
(two masculine hairy chested dudes in such intense impulse manner) n asked whether u should go check up?
i still force u to copy down recipes n try having them
fry worms on a bed of pak choy crisp touch of sesame dressing
mashed maggots spring onions with feta cheese,
cockroaches maitre d'hotel drizzled infused wormsy oil, mixed with garlic herb butter...
wormyroachy tumyam goong!
nayyyy.. u'd still feel disgusted no matter how its cooked or done.. it just wouldn't sound good, it'll stil disgust u.. so..no need for a check up qwaider.. i would be the one supposedly to be checked up bcoz i dont care how disgusted u feel but yet insisting n forcing u to wall up not even a recipe to u, or me, and to some,  for an absurd cooking..

keh3.. loud and crstal clear broyher qwaider! :)))

there's nothing wrong with you man, you're more normal than most execessively permissive people today.

hey there. i have debated about this issue homosexuality with my friends and have asked many people about their opinion on this. mostly would say its OK to be a gay and there is nothing with it. present generation mostly accept the idea of gay or les. being brought up in very traditional and spiritually strong family, i will never accept the idea of homosexuality and what homosexuals say that is its 'true love between them' how so u can love a person of same gender? what if it was lust? or just a desire...after all god made ADAM & EVE not ADAM &STEVE you can whatever you want there is no ways gays will or can produce biological offspring, it is how god created mankind......but it also doesn't mean that i hate these people, after they are also human beings. i'm a medical student and have heard stories on how some doctors treat these type of people. i believe strongly and agree that a good upbringing especially spiritual understanding can change things.
the mankind must educated to change perception on homosexuals is wrong, sinful and against nature. people are finding all kind of reasons to commit these sin.

here is something i found on the web..........
God does not create a person with homosexual desires. religion tells us that people become homosexuals because of sin and ultimately because of their own choice. A person may be born with a greater susceptibility to homosexuality, just as some people are born with a tendency to violence and other sins. That does not excuse the person’s choosing to sin by giving in to sinful desires. If a person is born with a greater susceptibility to anger/rage, does that make it right for him to give into those desires? Of course not! The same is true with homosexuality.

Just because someone is a homosexual does not mean that we cannot love him (or her) or pray for him (her). Homosexuality is a sin and like any other sin, it needs to be dealt with in the only way possible. It needs to be laid at the cross, repented of, and never done again.

There are those who like to say that the Bible does not condemn homosexuality.  Various verses are cited (out of context) and the verses that people use to show that homosexuality is wrong are explained away.  The world wants to change God's words and meanings into something more suitable to its sinful desires.

As a....you should pray for the salvation of the homosexual the same as you would for any other person in sin. The homosexual is still made in the image of God -- even though he is in grave sin.  Therefore, you should show him the same dignity as anyone else with whom you come in contact. However, this does not mean that you are to approve of their sin. Don't compromise your witness for a socially-acceptable opinion that is void of godliness.

i just hope the people can learn to change their perception on homosexuality and don't let it grow. only opposite attracts even in electric, ionic bonding, magnets and more..... =)

But if homosexuality is deemed by basically all psychologists to be completely "normal"...how long do you think things like pedophilia, incest, and zoophilia will be considered abnormal in the psychiatric community?

God, if there is one, created everyone equally. It is not upto biggots to tell them how should live their lifes, unless they are hurding someone.

In this case homosexuals are hurding by the "Normal" people.