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Fear of change

By: Qwaider

On:Monday, September 15, 2008 11:57:11 PM
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Change, the great mystery in our life, we embrace it at times, and we fear it others. Especially when we really don't know what's waiting for us on the other side.

Change is sometimes great, the best thing that could happen to us, and other times, it's bad. Something really bad.

There's a certain level of excitement and fearful anticipation that comes with change. This excitement and fear appear to correspond directly to the amount of change, the amount of mystery associated with it.

One thing is certain throughout this life, Change is inevitable, it's a constant like passing of time. It will come, whether you like it or not. Whether you want it or not. Whether you're prepared for it, or not.

Change is as eternal as time itself. At every single moment in time there are unimaginable number of changes that are taking place, they were caused by changes that happened before them and they will cause future change as well, forever moving in a perpetual way.

No one should ever think that what's he's experiencing is everything there is to it.

There are times that you will dread change, and others, you just don't understand why time isn't flying fast enough.

So don't fear change, embrace it, use it to fuel your own success, orchestrate it, plan it. Make it work for you.

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#1
jessyz
Said
On: 9/16/2008 12:31:22 AM

Sometimes you are so afraid of change but it turns out to be the best thing that has ever happened to you. Change is inevitable I guess. The best thing it to learn to embrace and initiate it.

#2
Hani Obaid
Said
On: 9/16/2008 7:39:27 AM

it's not the obvious major change in our environment that bothers me, that is out of my control most of the time. It's the change in self. Whether we like it or not, we are all influenced by those around us changing our very identity. Sure there are constants, but the problem with this type of change is that you don't notice it unless you specifically consider what you were like a while back, or you meet an old acquaintance. On the other hand at the end of each decade, you find no matter how much you know about everything and anything, you are still more ignorant than knowledgeable. There's always more to learn even for an 80 year old!

#3
Dino
Said
On: 9/16/2008 10:48:03 AM

I hate change. its scares me. i love routine. i hate having to change your life. your house. having to move. to lose ppl. change is good only when its for the best but its suck when its sad and you are forced to deal with it.

but its sunnat ala 7ayat ya yumma. *sigh i feel like sitteee * dino goes back to knitting jurzayeh

#4
Summer
Said
On: 9/16/2008 1:44:38 PM

i live for the change...its the best thing that happens in our lives.

#5
Marvin
Said
On: 9/16/2008 2:00:37 PM

Change is why we are here. If nothing changed, we would not learn, and our lives here would be a waste of time. Every experience, bad or good or even fatal, is an educational one.

#6
Qwaider
Said
On: 9/16/2008 8:38:15 PM

Jessyz
You're right, sometimes, we're afraid of something that might be the best thing for us, and others we're looking forward to something that might not be good for us

Hani
Yep, that's true, we're always learning

Dina
Hey new mommy, great to see you here
You're on the verge of a major change in your life, to become a Mommy is one of the greatest changes that any one can go through
I like the "ya yumma" part. Shaklek 3ayshed el door mazboot :) As you plan to become a new mama :)

Summer
Although I agree with you, but I have to add that it's not always a good change. But inshallah all your changes would be great ya rab

Marvin
Absolutely, if it wasn't for change, we wouldn't be here in the first place
There is this saying in Arabic: لو دامت لغيرك لما وصلت اليك or loosely: If it has lasted for someone else, it wouldn't have reached you.

#7
KJ
Said
On: 9/17/2008 9:16:24 PM

LOL @ Lebanon Girls ad hahahaha

Anyhoo, I'm such a chicken when it comes to change, although I'm the first one to be cheering when it does!

Except when it turns out bad - but down the road when you look back in retrospect, it looks all rosy, awesome, and most importantly, taught you something!