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Homesick, no more!

  • By: Qwaider

  • On:Wednesday, July 30, 2008 1:26:07 AM
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    It's so weird, but ever since I got married, one thing have disappeared of my list of feelings. The feeling of homesickness!

    I remember spending nights dreaming of going back to Amman, and days crying of how awesome it used to be back home. I went out of my way to find songs that relate to home, and cried to Aziz Maraqa's "The story" where the guys want to go back to Amman!

    Now, it's no longer there! The stranger part is that I really don't miss that feeling!

    This is so strange. For someone like me who has really strong ties and relations to "home". But it's so true. At least from my perspective, the feeling has vanished! There is no longing anymore, there is no missing, and homesickness no longer exists

    I guess, whoever said, "Home is where the heart is" really meant, "home is where the wife is"

    So if someone out there feels homesick, my advice is .. get married! You'll either hurry back, or forget about it!

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    Soon you will be back "crying" because of Singlelife-sickness!
    Although i can't speak for marital experience yet, if i were to guess, i would say you are not feeling so homesick because you are experiencing something totally new in your life, and that is not leaving any space for your old feelings at the moment. They are at least dampened for now. This may also be because you now have a piece of home sitting right next to you at all time :-) ... i don't know ... but cool.

    on your advice to get married ... are you willing to finance those who are in the line ?
    What's up with comment moderation ? are you adopting a new strategy ?
    They also said home is where you hang your hat :)

    I'm glad you'll feel settled in no matter where you go now.
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    • KJ
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    • On: 7/30/2008 8:40:53 AM
    hehehehe

    home is where the food is man. The FRIDGE!

    Yes I am always home sick :P
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    • nido
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    • On: 7/30/2008 9:05:18 AM
    Not any wife Qwaider...Not any wife! Hadi Maioush :) She always makes it feel like home whenever I call her! Well, that was zaman! she is too busy for me these days:s
    I'm glad ou found home !!
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    • MD
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    • On: 7/30/2008 9:32:19 AM
    first of all, a late mabrook :)

    I think Za3tar is somehow right, I got the same feeling as I found my life partner, but then later in life, some months later, both of us went back to staring at the ceiling and remembering the nice days we spent there. it happens much less than before,  but it still happens.
    and by the way i think that those little times now are the real homesickness, the ones i had before finding my love were "love-sickness" or "care-sickness", care that came from home inhabitants.
    I cannot speak with authority on homesickness, but I find the logic in what MD is saying. you did not have anyone to care for and to care for you but back home, now you do : )
    LOL! True! Home is where your other half is.
    انا عانيت من هاي المشكله كمان لما اجيت على امريكا بس خفت لما جبت عبودي ولولو وهو شعور مقرف ومؤذي كثير بتحس حالك عم بتموت كل يوم لكن الحمدلله بمساعدة ابو لولو والاولاد تخطيناها وياسيدي الله يهنيك ان شاء الله كمان وكمان
    Garfan
    :) No one cries for loneliness :)
    Well, happy people don't :)

    Za3tar
    Finance your own 7abeebi :)
    Who knows, maybe I'm high on marriage at the moment. But I would like to be high on marriage for a long time :)

    Za3tar2
    Fixed

    Hani
    I hope you find happiness too :)

    KJ
    LOL! Yeah ... The fridge is usually where the wife is .. so that works too :)

    Nido
    Yes, wallahi you're right, not any wife,  Maioush ... is one of a kind
    I'll ask her to call you :)

    MD
    Allah ybarek feeki .. thank you very much
    you might be right, I guess :) we'll know eventually
    I'm just happy right now that this feeling is gone...  or at least sleeping

    Tamara
    :) We'll know. But these moments that I am enjoying right now, are worth everything

    Marvin
    LOL... Absolutely

    سوزان
    الله يسعدك انتي كمان و يخلّيلك الكل
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