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So, how did you meet?

By: Qwaider

On:Thursday, July 03, 2008 11:09:42 AM
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By far the question most people ask me everytime I say, "I'm getting married" is "So, how did you meet"

I have no idea what people gain by knowing such things. Like, would they be able to give the relationship a duration or a period before something happens? Or is it to judge people as in ... If it was through family, then good, if not, then bad!

I honestly don't mind the question, but it makes me wonder!

Could it be that they're hoping to hear a romantic love story unravelling before them or maybe gauge their own experience based on that!

Can someone tell me what do people think of when they ask that question?!

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#1
Abed Hamdan
Said
On: 7/3/2008 12:30:50 PM

curiosity ! :)

#2
Naryat
Said
On: 7/3/2008 12:36:40 PM

Wallahi it depends...
Some ask just men bab el fudool laysa aktar...
Some want to gain one more story to astonish friends with during sessions and social visits...
Some just wanna be sure that you did not get some thing better thatn they got...
Some of them ask because you are dear to them and they consider that telling them is a way of cherishing them back...
Some ask because they are fondof stories anddetails in general...
Some ask out of their honest happines for what happened to you...
And some just like to countthe points of similarity between yourstory and their's :-)
Or may be just because you are a well spotted blogger, so they want to see how such a famous character might make up his mind!! :-)
ma azon tarakt 7ada men sharri loool ta3'6eye shameleh mutakamele ka2enni Zain :-p

and having me in the atmosphere let me wish you the best of best again :-)

#3
mab3oos
Said
On: 7/3/2008 12:45:25 PM

OK, I'll tell you why.

most people belong to one of the following categories:

1)nosy. They want to know البيضة مين باضها
2)they are professional small talkers. they just want to get some conversation going
3)they are just wondering if the way you guys met could be replicated and they could meet someone too.
4)they are genuinely interested to know if she was a Russian catalog bride
5)they are just nice and don't want to say: man you're doomed! or
6)they were sent by her family to know the real story.

so, how did you guys meet?

#4
KJ
Said
On: 7/3/2008 1:10:56 PM

*must make haste with Moogle Thoughts*

#5
Maher
Said
On: 7/3/2008 1:53:52 PM

i think they all wanna hear some love story :s

PS: i enjoyed Hancock! for me i enjoyed it more than iron man! :s

#6
ASKAdenia
Said
On: 7/3/2008 2:33:01 PM

يمكن فضول بحسن نية

#7
Diana
Said
On: 7/3/2008 3:06:25 PM

come on, it's always nice to hear stories about how did a couple meet and how did they decide to tie the knot :)
I don't consider it curiosity.

#8
Noura
Said
On: 7/3/2008 3:40:46 PM

Curiosity first and we want to hear a nice, romantic love story, we are fascinated with fairy tales :)
Tayyeb 7ata terta7 because it seems you are bothered with all the questions, tell us everything w khalas, then we'll leave u alone and u can live in peace, mnee7 heik ??
loool

and I still think my guess is right !!

#9
za3tar
Said
On: 7/3/2008 8:38:33 PM

Come on .. this is to be expected. People do socialize and care for one another, and if somebody goes through a life changing experience (like getting married), they would like to share that experience with him. If you don't want people to share such experiences with you, don't tell them or don't invite them to your wedding.

Plus, this conversation is more sucky:
-X: Hi Q, how are you ? how's it going ?
-Q: Hi X, I'm fine, things are good, and i'm getting married.
-X: Ok, .. so how about this 3-bean salad for lunch ?

#10
Qwaider
Said
On: 7/3/2008 9:08:32 PM

Abed
Yes, and curiosity killed the cat :)

Naryat
I think you're right, but I also think many just want to put a moral value on our relationship based on the way we first met!

Garfan
Yeah, I know all about the people who want to know البيضة مين باضها و الجاجة مين جاجها
We met like everyone else :)

KJ
LOL!

Maher
Yep, I think so too!
I'm glad you liked Hancock. I gave it a score right bellow Iron Man, but they're both very close and they're both excellent

Askadenia
انشالله يكون هيك

Diana
I know ... I know ... but as curiosity killed the cat :)

Noura
I'm not bothered with the questions, I'm just feeling weird about them. Especially when I feel that they have ulterior motives!

Za3tar
LOL! I don't want to kill them also! I just don't like the feeling that I sometimes get when I feel that they really want to put a moral price tag at the whole thing. Basing it on "how we met"

HAHAHAH... Cool conversation Za3tar :)

#11
queenie
Said
On: 7/3/2008 10:24:32 PM

Yeah, those questions about how a couple met are always soooo loaded with expectations of some kind of cutesy story, so that when it's just "ya3ni, 7ada dalna 3ala ba3d" or something simple, it becomes anti-climactic, everyone's dissapointed, and the person might feel a bit embarrassed that it wasn't more complicated than that, even though there's nothing wrong with it. :(

#12
Hayati
Said
On: 7/3/2008 11:46:09 PM

Only reasonable explanation for getting all annoyed over a question is that you expect judgment which means - and we already took the hint - you guys met online.

My tip...just say it and NEVER mind moral tags oo bateekh!

Happy honey moon in advance :)

#13
Hareega
Said
On: 7/4/2008 12:12:28 AM

Women, it's women who usually ask these questions. They really expect some wonderful answers and try to romanatcize every marraige, althouhg most men think of it as just a way from preventing the human kind of extension and having legal sex for free

#14
Rami
Said
On: 7/4/2008 1:32:36 AM

I have to agree with my friend Hareega...it is only women who ask that question...hoping to hear a great romantic story....just say we never met but my sister seems to think that she is nice....

#15
Qwaider
Said
On: 7/4/2008 2:09:07 AM

Queenie
That's what makes me uneasy. I just always feel that they're loaded questions and that's why people ask them.

Hayati
Hmmm, maybe :)

Hareega
Yeah, but I still got a couple of guys who want to rush and claim the moral supremacy of how traditional their introductions with. They just want to put a price tag next to the method! Here's the funny part, YOU CAN NEVER PLEASE PEOPLE! If you gave them the ultimate love story introduction. They will be like "yeah, deer balak. My cousin had that and he is divorced now". Or if you give them the traditional method, they will back at you in disbelief as how boring and khara that is. And how their cousin who had that also got divorced! Humph!

Rami
Good to see you here again.
HAHAHAHHAA I love your story! Maybe I should use that! hehehehe

#16
Simply Me
Said
On: 7/4/2008 2:16:32 AM

open a stupid conversation.

#17
Qwaider
Said
On: 7/4/2008 4:17:02 AM

LOL ... conversation about what?!

#18
hamede
Said
On: 7/4/2008 7:28:37 AM

That,s us arab people.

#19
Shaher
Said
On: 7/4/2008 2:04:42 PM

I guess they ask just for the sense of being curious, and as you've said, to find a way to judge people :s

#20
Hisham
Said
On: 7/4/2008 5:32:45 PM

That usually happen with me also, specially when people knew that my wife in not an Arab woman, it annoy me some times, so I decided every time to answer different answer lol and have fun!!

BTW - Congratulation if you are going to do it man!!