On getting married and such!
- By: Qwaider
- On:Monday, June 16, 2008 11:22:18 AM
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In 27 more days I will divorce celibacy and embrace a new life ... The life of a family man with so much responsibilities...
I'm sure this comes as a shocker to so many people, believe me, it was kind of a shock for me too, but I decided it's time, and I decided to walk into the golden cage before I get shoved in there by force, or worse, possibly they'll decide to lock me out, for good!
If I can share one thing with the world it is the fact that I'm welcoming this change with mixed emotions. I'm loving the whole idea, but at the same time, I'm so scared of what lies ahead!
I will no longer be the king of my domain, I will no longer be in charge of my own time and I will certainly not have the whole bed for myself to roll however I please without someone breathing down my neck!
I will no longer be the sole decision maker in my own house nor will I be able to spend however I please to buy the gadgets I love or the stuff I "waste" my money on. No more picking up my stuff and travelling overseas, and no more late nights out with the guys!
But on the other hand, I no longer have to stay so alone, no more lonely nights...
I hate to disappoint everyone out there who thought that I would be the last remaining fort against the female invasion on this world, but this castle has fallen!
But here's the best part! There's nothing, I have ever written, on this blog, that my future wife (and her mother) have not already read! I don't have to delete anything, I don't have to change the tone of anything and I don't have to explain anything! If all of that doesn't show how amazing this lady is, then nothing will. She's one of kind... A true gem, and lucky for me, I found that gem!
It took a lot of tries to get to her, but I succeeded. It was probably the hardest thing I've ever done in my life, but she was totally worth it!
I don't regret anything, every experience I had, got me an inch closer. Every failure I endured got me that much closer. Every shard of glass that tore my heart taught me how to seek out the real diamond... I couldn't be any happier
So 27 days days to go ...
Memories....
ALFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF MABROOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooOKKKKKKKKKK
New life , responsibilty .....
:) ....
but ur right , u will never be a lone any more ,,,, :)
Wish YOU LUCK :)
May Allah make it a road to heaven for you two.. Amen :)
awwwwwwwwww :')
Alf mabrook abushreek
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As you can see now I sport a bigger head for a bigger grin!!!!
You can still have late nights with the guys - just send the Mrs shopping a day prior :P LMAO
Alf mabroo 7abib, all the best :)
Hani, Moogle is all yours now up for an heir :D
And Moogle says to Qwaider:
Imbecile!
lololleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh : )
i second Tamara, it sounds like a bloggerette to me ;)
Best wishes to you and the future Mrs.Q
allah ywaf2ak o ywaf2ekom ma3 ba3ad!
Be nice and loving and you will make a good husband :)
اتاريك طبيت و ما حدش سمى عليك
الف الف مبروك يا قويدر الله يهنيكم يا رب و اكيد العروس اشي سبيشل غير شكل نخب اول
خلص سهرة العرس في المنشر من هلا بحجز
و الدبيكة و السحيجة من عندي و المناسف كمان
هاي خبر بيفرح
عن جد بيفرح
عقبالم شباب و صبايا
يالله اجا الصيف
و بدينا الموسم الصيفي للافراح بقويدر
هوز نيكست
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مبروك..الله يوفقكم
This is the last thing i ever expected to read today :-p
Alf Alf mabrook Qwaider .. my most sincere congrats to you and her.
يعني عن جد ألف مبروك حبيبي ... مش معقول يا زلمة هاي عن جد مفاجئة!!!! كيف؟ وين؟
يعني يم ..خلص راح تتجوز...طب كان حكيتلنا إنك خاطب بركي جنناك شوي :-).. يا سيدي الله يعينها :-) .. لا بس عن جد ألف ألف مبروك .. والله إني فرحتلك من كل قلبي
PS: I also second Tamara & Wonders .. i think she is a bloggerette as well.
Now i'm reminded with this post: http://blog.sweetestmemories.com/default.asp?display=1053
Guys let's see how his predictions hold up :-)
All the best...
Really CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
but who is the lucky one, we want to know....
now, are you going to still write about marriage the same way you used to?
p.s. عقبال عندي!!
raben yewafa2ak :)
O allah yetamam 3ala 5er :)
2. Traitor!
3. Congrats. I'll look forward to a world with more Qwaiders
Allah ybarek feeki. Yeah, I couldn't resist :)
Chika#
3o2balek :)
Starwish
Thanks
Jad
Thanks my friend :) 3o2balak
Jad#2
Far7an-Li willa far7af Fyyee? :)
Md
THANKS :)
Vagueraz
THANKS :) Yeah, I'm looking forward to the new life and responsibility :)
Sara
Thank you so much, and for the nice post. May you be blessed too
Angry
Ya zalameh, tawwel balak. It takes a minute to show up!
:) And thank you .. Okbalak!! oops! You've already done that! :D
KJ
HAHAHHAA that's the largest smile ever!
Thanks bro, okbalak!
KJ#2
Moogle! You're just jealous cuz you're ... emm... too short :)
Tamara
Allah ybarek feeki ya rab :)
There will be details ... a lot ... all in good time
Wonders
Thanks ... Allah ybarek feeki.
And yes, She is a bloggerette :)
Jerusalem
OH wow!! Someone is actually repeating my own words to me! I guess I should be careful what I say :)
Yep, this trap has been sprung and I'm in it! :D
Yeah, she's totally worth it, that's why I decided to just go for it! Life is too short!
Abed
Allah ybarek feek ya rab! Okbalak
تالا
Thank you soooooo much Tala. Yes, I think it wasn't a secret that I wanted it so badly, and I finally made it. It took a lot of trial and disasters, but I made it :) (gulp) (I think)
Maher:
ALLLLLLLLF allah ybarek feek my friend ... :)
Simply Me
Thank you soooooooooo much my dear, thank you and Thank Nimer.
Kinzi
Thank you so much, yeah, a post is in the works, you'll have to wait 30 more years to get all the details! Oh wait, you already have them all :D
Whisperer
Thanks :) Looking forward to hear from you...
Jasim
Thanks, Allah ybarek feek
Khouloud
THANKSSSSS :D
نورا
الله يبارك فيكي و عقبالك يارب
I will be the best I can be!
Hamede
Allah ybarek feek ya rab!
ملائط
الله يبارك فيكي يارب ... شايفة؟ طبّينا و اللي كان كان! شو بدنا نعمل
و بالفعل العروس سوبر سبيشال .. الله يخلّيكي .. يا ريت تحكيلها العرس عندك علشان و الله احسن :) من كل الفنادق
TripleM
Thanks, I totally mean these words, inshallah I will live up to them
يزن
الله يبارك فيك يا رب
Za3tar
Yep! Can you imagine!? :)
Allah ybarek feek ... Thank you very much
الله يبارك فيك... حلوة بس هاي المفاجأة صح؟
انا لسة ما خطبت.. بس قررنا نعمل الخطبة و العرس مع بعض
Yes, she's a bloggerette :)
Za3tar#2
HAHAHAHA ... yeah ... we'll have to wait and see :)
UTP
Thank you so much. Inshallah I'll do my best
Arima
Thank you sooooo much :). I agree with you, all bloggers deserve this .. inshallah they will all get it
Nido
YESSSSSSSSSS! Absolutely! You, the little one and Jeej are all invited!
Afaf
Thanks Afaf :)
You will know soon :)
Garfan
Okbalak :) and then you might have to change your name :)
Yeah, totally, now I will have an insider scoop! (gulp), if I'm still alive hehehehe
Lulu
Allah ybarek feeki ya rab... Okbalek
Qabbani
HEEEYYYY Abut shreek... sirna bilhawa sawa :)
Hani
HAHAHAHA ... okbalak my friend
وبالتوفيق ان شاءالله
Do it quick...la2inno if not baballish ano22 :D
"She's one of kind... A true gem, and lucky for me, I found that gem" is that gem a GEMini? :evilface:
so finally u did it ...
وعقبال كل اللي بنفسه
انا قرأت البوست مبارح بالليل بس حكيت خليها للصبح أحسن ما تكون " كلام الليل يمحوه النهار"...بس ما دام وقعت فكان الله في عونك وعونها
بتعرف شغلة
كل واحد فينا بكون بحاجة لحضن دافي يلجأله في وحدته بس لما ينوي بفوت براسه الف شغلة بتلخمه وبتخليه يعد للألف وسبعمية قبل هذا القرار
كنت أعزب داير مجنون...وقلي عقلي أجوز
looking forward to promised details :)
i think we all know things about each other more than the people around us do, even if we do not know each other in person :)
Congratulation Qwaider.. i wish you all the best..
that makes the three of us....
samer, u enjoy that wer r net7ar2ass to know who is mrs Q to be...ha???
Qwaider getting married?
walaaaaaaaaaak wallahi i am happy for you!!!
3njad mesh 3arfeh shu 27ki!!!
So cute!!!
mashalla mashalla!!
Allah ywafe2kom o ytammem o yejma3kom 3a5eer...
SAMEEER I am happy for you :-)
Alf Alf Mbroook :-D
Allah ybarek feek :). Okbalak .. there are many prison cells out there :)
Batoul
Allah ybarek feeki ya rab.Haik ya tooteh? I thought you'd be on my side :)
Mona
الله يبارك فيكي و يوفقك يا رب
Whisperer
:) I'll try to email you :)
Nido
Allah barek feeki oo fi Jeej :).
ProudPali
:)
Shayfeh? :) khalas...
YES!!! :D She is ... (but again, me and Gemini's get along VERY well)
Rare
Yep .. I did :)
Okbalek ya rab
Wonders
Are you going to use the force on me now? :)
ProudPali#2
Hmm, and which direction would that be?
Shaltaf
الله يبارك فيك و عقبالك يا رب... لأ خلص ما في "محي". الله يكون في عون الجميع
ها ها ها ... صح... و الله كنت داير مجنون .. بس مش عارف، عقلت و اللا انجنّيت اكتر
Laila
Allah ybarek feeki ya rab. Okbalek
Princess N
Allah ykhalleeki, and you're wallahi like a dear sister to me.
Okbalek ya rab
Afaf #200
Yes :) Mrs Q is enjoying it too :D
Naryat
Yes, shofti ... I'm getting married too :)
Thank you soooooo much for the nice wishes. They mean so much for me. So much
n_n
u r getting married!!! OMG !! now that's the coolest thing ever !! no more single qwaider !! um gonna miss the single u but um sure the married u wud rock even more !!
I came back expecting anything but this ! now this is truely a surprise but a really really really great one !!
I wanna attend the wedding and I wanna know who she is :D :D :D
God this is so great !! yepppiiieeee!!
I've never been excited about sum1 getting married but I am just so happy for you !!
Congratulations my friend tet-hano inshallah w bel rafah w al baneeen !!
ahhhhhhh,,, I just can't shut up !! mabrooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooookkkkkkkkkkkkkkk !!
Again alf mabrouk ! n_n
This is so so so so so great ! I wasn't that excited when my favorite uncle got married !!!
do u think u guys can come up with a wedding registery b4 the wedding?? i hope so! keep me posted....plzzzzz
NOOOOOOOOOO WAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
OH MY GOD Qwaider ... I can't believe it!
ALF ALF ALF ALF MABROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOK!!!!!
She's the luckiest girl ... EVER! (I hate her!) LOL! Nooooooo , I'm just kidding
Mashallah, allah yhanneekom ya rab.
I dont know what i feel.. all mixed bs all happy wallah :) for both tab3an bs la2eno the other one did not announce it so im writing here for both lol
Questions;
will this blog be changed to Qwaider's family blog? hehe or maybe Mr and Mrs Qwaider? :p
Will you both be fighting over the blogs? hahaha
Since you cook very well, who will be cooking? :p lol
Will you announce the Bride's name or she will announce it herself?
will you keep playing xbox all day long after marriage? hehe
God bless you both :) o allah ywafe2kom :)
Allah ybarek feeki
I'm not going to change, I'll just be more in touch with the feminine side of things :)
Tat3ali you're invited. I'll pick you as my best man :)
You will know everything soon inshallah
Allah ykhalleeki ya rab :)
Lostwithin#2
There's nothing wrong with you getting excited about your brother getting married :D
Afaf
We're having it here in the US, we don't have a lot of time to go back home and make the wedding there
We might still have a nice wedding reception when we go there to visit
Lulu
Thank you so much. I will tell all soon :)
Allah ybarek feeki and okbalek ya rab
Firefaten
Long time no see.
Thank you so much and okbalek :D When you know her you will love her, you won't hate her for sure
I know you're kidding
Jano
LOL ... allah yjazeeki bas. Thank you so much and okbalek. And thank you more for .. something else :)
Answering your questions
- This blog is going to continue to be my blog.. She has her own and she can continue to use it
- We might be fighting over the blogs, who knows! I hope not!
- I am still trying to convince her that I want to do all the cooking! Still working on that
- No, the bride's name will not be announced. And will never be spoken again, from now on her name is going to be "Kareematoh كريمته"
- I rarely play XBOX, and after marriage, I'll finally have someone to play with me :)
Whisperer
LOL! You gotta guess again, there are others Geminis out there :), Many others
You should head over to CTRL ALT DEL comics and learn the ways of marriage + gamehood!
Aaaaanways,
Alf mabrook ya cidi o bil rafah wal baneen (fareeq koret qadam :P ) o tithanno inshalla o allah iywaffegkom o 3ogbal il meet saneh (ma3 ba3ad ya3ni) :)
but if we guess right you will tell us?? :)
Khalleeha mastoora ya Zalameh
Bakkouz
Thank you so much habeebi
Wonders
Have the secret meeting, I nominate you as my representative. I trust you
If you guess, I will tell you, but whisper it to me first *just in case it's wrong, so no i7raj*
Dino$
Thank you so much :)
The observer
Thanks my friend, allah ybarek feek
On the road!!
تمنياتي لك و للعروس بكل خير و سعاده....انا معزومه على العرس؟ :)
قوللي عشان اشتري الفستان من هلأ!
Thank you ...you will know Soon
سمر
الله يبارك فيكي يار رب و يسعدك
طبعا معزومة اكييييد
Alf Mabrook :)
Thank you so much
Taqabbal allah el Umra inshallah
Nada
Thank you so much :)
Sam
Thank you so much my dear. All will be revealed, in good time