Spots and Poles

Men are like poles, they can be visible from miles, they are easy to handle and well known in the ways they operate. A very simple rope and poly is all you need to have them perform their main function. To fly a flag and make it visible to everyone.

Women, are like spots. You will need to be at a certain place and dig really deep to find that spot. You really have to get very close to be able to see the spot and let alone do something with it.

But, here comes the dilemma, what do you do with a spot? Could it be a portal to a wonderful world? A bulls-eye perhaps for a target? Maybe it's the pupil of a Godzilla? Or maybe a very meaningful full stop at the end of a sentence. The spot on it's own is just a piece of a bigger puzzle and someone really needs to pay attention to the details and get very dangerously close to get to that spot

The spot isn't only spacial, like something you can find at specific coordinates but it's also temporal. So it can't only be found on a map, you have to add a time, a specific period where that spot would be available. And it will not be available at any other time.

Just consider this, the window where a woman can be pregnant is like this spot. A man on the other hand is ready at any time. This window is not only emotional and psychological, but also temporal. There is only a specific amount of time where it could be achieved. Many other intimate matter are similar to that, if you think deeply about them.

The other example is starting a relationship. A man is usually ready, (or at least think they're ready) to start a relationship at any given time, with almost any woman no matter how unsuitable that might be. However, women have to be at the right mood, the right conditions, the right time and the right person even attempt to consider a relationship. (I actually think women are really better at these than men)

Men are very vocal and visible in what they want. They're clear. Their needs don't even need to be communicated, they're visible (just like a pole). While women's wants, needs and desires can only be guessed, even women themselves get lost in identifying what they need. What makes them happy, and what they are looking for. Many women believe that explaining what they want, takes away from the romantic part of the whole matter. Not to forget that a clueless male displays the two worst turnoffs, inexperience and indecisiveness.

So the next time you get very confused about the other sex, remember the spots and the poles. It might help you save the day. Not only by knowing what the other is going through, but because you can know yourself better.