What marriage is not, AGAIN!

I have said this a million times before if not more, but people don't listen!

Marriage is based on sharing, caring, enjoying, sacrificing and a million other selfless acts.

If the man is doing all the sacrificing and is not getting anything back, (something in return like a WIFE), then he's not a man. He's a poodle!

If a woman is looking to marry a man, who's not man enough to stand up for his own rights, then how in the world is he going to support her and stand up for her rights!?

I don't want to hear anyone bullshitting about how he's an amazing man for accepting his wife's crazy ideas. He's a slave of her whims and is not man enough to tell her that what she is doing is wrong

I have no respect for such non-men. For not standing up for their own.

There's a huge difference between supporting the wife, and being her poodle. I for one refuse to be such a man! I have something you can't find in such men and it's simply called dignity.

There isn't a single marriage in the whole universe without sacrifice and compromise. No one asks the man, to do it all alone, or the woman to take it all alone. It's all about SHARING! I am just frustrated by GROWN ADULTS who don't understand the kindergarten concept of sharing!

And I don't want to hear from bitter self proclaimed feminists either. I'm not asking for less rights for women, or more rights for men, I'm asking for EQUAL rights. Justice for all, dignity for all, self and mutual respect for all. Not for one party at the expense of the others

I know there has been cases where the man will pick up and relocate to different country to bring home the bread. But it's not his decision alone and it's really a mutual sacrifice. It's not like if the man does it then it's OK and if the woman does it then it's not OK! It's hard on the two, because the two end up in a relationship that is neither marriage nor singlehood (if that is a word).

There's no difference if you're being a hypocrite pro men or pro women. It's the same thing and these very interesting bitter and angry feminists are like this for a reason. They have suffered in the past and they're bringing it all out on everyone. Everyone likes to generalize. Everyone likes to think that they know everything about the whole gender from their experience with two guys who screwed them and left them to high and dry. Well, all generalizations are false. (including this one)

I choose to be a MAN. Not only anatomically. This comes with a certain expectations, it comes with a certain amount of obligations and I'm vowing to fulfil all my commitments. On the other hand, it comes with a well known set of rights, and I will try to get as much of them as I can. I might be lenient when it comes on my rights, but I will not come short of my obligations. That's the kind of man I want to be, and I will be relentless in my efforts.

One thing people forget, MY Dignity, is an extension of my wife's dignity, and her dignity is my own. If I am being stomped all over for her sake, then it's her dignity that is being smothered! Not only mine! And if she doesn't feel that, then she's not worthy.

if being married means I'm going to be someone's bitch, then to hell with marriage! Yes, that's a Qwaiderization, and might be the best Feminist slogan you can ever find. We're not that different, we all want to live with dignity, and not at the expense of the other!