The changing field
- By: Qwaider
- On:Wednesday, April 02, 2008 11:59:36 PM
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I remember clearly, when not a single guy at school had a single gray hair. I remember when everyone had a full head of hair and everyone talked about hair products that curl, shine and provides wet-looks. I remember the rumours associated with hair gel, I remember how everyone was proud of an amazing hairdo that was their signature. I look back at those and laugh so hard as the pictures say a completely other story.
One thing is certain in many things I've witnessed, change! Nothing stays the same, things move forward, backward and sometimes sideways, but everything changes... everything!
It seems that with receding hairlines, expanded bellies and a few earthlings calling a person daddy you would expect them to have grown socially. When, in fact, all that I see is growth in the waistline and the amount of saliva that is catapulted through the heated talks.
Somehow, the fact that a guy got married, and got a kid makes him suddenly a guru, and on anything and everything, including things that are in your area of expertise. When you question, or cast doubt on what they say, the result is so violent. So loud that you would think it's the volume that makes a specific piece of information fact!
If words carry more weight if they're shouted louder, that would have resolved everything in the world. Truth is, it doesn't, it doesn't give a single ounce of truth regardless of the volume or pitch of sound.
But as I have said earlier, people who respond violently to any argument are either unable to answer, or would like to send a different message to other people. They just seize an opportunity to scream their unrelated junk
The world has changed for me, it keeps changing. People have changed. The same people, were perhaps the complete opposite of what they eventually became.
When I combine that with the fact that I myself have changed, I land on a frightening conclusion. Some people that I consider friends are actually more alien to me than many people I hardly know! All that has changed is the new suits, ties and shiny shoes, and a weird looking mindless drone they call wife!
If I ever end up with a mindless drone, I would like anyone to shoot me!
Memories....
just kidding :)
really nice post and accurate
Your friends who married a drone are drones too, with all due respect! Nodding doesn't get anyone anywhere! Not so far anyway.
Cheer up! I'd actually like to see your kids. LOOOL. Worse comes to worst, if you're still single by the time I get married, you can have Moogle
Well we change, and our friends should be chaining in the same speed, or there will be a gap. personally I don't bother with people who don't evolve....the sad part is that you see some people going backwards!!
Hey and choose wisely you will not end up with a mindless drone! to be honest I cannot wait to read your engagement announcement : )
And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives
Where we're gonna be when we turn 25
I keep thinking times will never change
Keep on thinking things will always be the same
But when we leave this year we won't be coming back
No more hanging out cause we're on a different track
And if you got something that you need to say
You better say it right now cause you don't have another day
Cause we're moving on and we can't slow down
These memories are playing like a film without sound
And I keep thinking of the night in June
I Didn't know much of love, but it came too soon
And There was me and you, and then it got real blue
Stay at home talkin' on the telephone and
We would get so excited, we'd get so scared
Laughing at our selves thinking life's not fair
And this is how it feels
Chorus:
As we go on, we remember
All the times we had together
And as our lives change, from whatever
We will still be, friends forever
So if we get the big jobs and we make the big money
When we look back now, will that joke still be funny?
Will we still remember everything we learned in school?
Still be trying to break every single rule
Will little brainy Bobby be the stockbroker man?
Can Heather find a job that won't interfere with her tan?
I keep, I keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly
And this is how it feels
Repeat chorus
La, la, la, la; yeah, yeah, yeah
La, la, la, la, we will still be friends forever
Will we think about tomorrow like we think about now?
Can we survive it out there? Can we make it somehow?
I guess I thought that this would never end
And suddenly it's like we're women and men
Will the past be a shadow that will follow us round?
Will these memories fade when I leave this town
I keep, I keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly
Repeat chorus 3x
And nothing in life remains the same not for the shortes while and people are not an exception they change too , sometimes to the worse" bellies , receding hairlines ...may god protect urs from receding" and sometimes to the better " earthlings calling them dad is not that bad "
When people start shouting at me and talking so loud i cannot even hear or understand what they are saying, but i do know if you listen to how they feel and not listen to their words they are shouting out you can better understand them.think about why they are screaming anyway, are they mad? ARE THEY SAD? ARE THEY PISSED OFF? WHATEVER we can only focus on the fact that they are not in their normal mind state. a man is not a man just coz he got a kid a goat can make a kid. a man is a man by his actions and noble duties to people.so the louder he talks the worse he becomes.and all his words carry no weight.i realize in some cultures the tone of voices are so loud and it is their way of getting a point across, but violently is another story. to me it means a defense of some kind either they are not sure or they want to convince you to join them in their veiws.i think mostly women scream all the mumbo jumbo. usually men dont scream without a reason.Well about change- we must change so we can excell in life without it there will be no tommorow we would be stuck in time, as for those who change the opposite way you thought they become well in a way it means that both of you have changed. as for getting a drone as a wife that is highly unlikely seeing that you are very keen and aware of this world, so you know what you want and you know what you need. you will be fine q