I look back upon so many choices I've taken in my life and sometimes I wonder if I would go back in time, knowing what I know now. Would I make those same choices again!?
I wouldn't make many of them. But why do people insist on repeating the the same mistakes over and over!?
Some people I guess never learn!
But is that broad statement true? Or is it that people sometimes battle with their hopes and frustrations. Maybe it's fate the they continuously believe is putting them back together again
If you had a very rough relationship with a man, or a woman, would you consider getting closer to them? Wasn't it enough that you tried, and failed and now you're trying again?! Why the wasted energy?
An Arabic saying "ما محبّة الا من بعد عداوة" (You only like people after you had hated them) pops to my mind at this point. I guess the Arabic saying is missing a second part, "و ما عداوة الا من بعد محبة" (And there is no hatred except after you had liked the people). Which is so true, since many of the people we can't stand, were possibly once, good friends!
But that's not a rule
I think there's a lot of fish in the sea, and life is too short to waste on the wrong person ... what do you think?!