Another angry blogger today.

What's matter?

That is the price you will pay as you are good guy.

LAH LAH LAH!! some one is as mad as i am!
wait, do we know the same people eshi?? LOL i guess we do.
some freaking idiots talk about you behind your back too?? ya allah i'm so mad toady at these actions, and YES! the people who gossip to you are the same ones ho gossips about you!!

I agree with most of your post except
"Yes, that includes your best best friend!"

When you bitch and complain to your closest friends about others (if they really ARE your closest FRIENDS that is), then it's different. In my case, I know without a doubt that whatever I tell my best friends will not leave the vicinity of the conversation and they would never *ever* talk about me behind my back.

Bs yea... in general. Anyone who talks about someone else will talk about YOU one day. If their nature is to backbite, they'll do it everyone. That's why I really don't like people who talk about other people... usually its because they have no life and are trying to live through others, or to put others down so that they look better (one or the other, maybe both).
I know these two girls here who are inseperable. They spend every single day together as they study for entrance exams into university. Once, I saw each of them seperately. Girl no.1 told me that I shouldn't believe anything Girl no.2 says because she tends to exagerate and overinflate everything. Later that day, I happened to run into Girl no.2 who suddenly found it appropriate to tell me that Girl no.1 is silly and boasts that she can do alot of things but in reality, she can't do anything.

I was pretty shocked since I knew the close friendship between them and all I could think of was ... if they talk that way about EACH OTHER (when they are so close to each other) to ME (who only really knows them in passing), then what the hell are they saying about me to each other?

And no..  I didn't pass on either of their comments to the other one. I figured they deserve each other.

:S do you need to talk? lol I won't stab you in the back, no lol.

1. as far as I know, chewing on someone's flesh is in Quran, not hadeeth.

2. I dont agree, you have just chosen the wrong people, your mistake, what you wrote does not apply on others, just because you didnt know how to chose friends :P

3. have a good day

hehe, ya thats cool,

by the way your very right, my life partner is always blamed by me for being nice and not knowing how to chose friends. I think being nice is not always nice. anyway you learned a lesson, thats something to be happy about.

Sheesh man I hate back stabbers :/

6awel balak! jad feshe eshe mestahel! let them talk zay ma bedhom! We know you..and most important..you know yourself :)

So whats for dinner? :s

I'll try from now on to never backbite..

I've always done it.. But ended up making a face or a move that's exacly equal to gossiping..

That's my promise :)

God is my witness..

:)

for me i think bloggers should be extra careful with forming friendships with other bloggers, coz you think you know people but then again we know each other from blogs, in the blogsphere you can be anyone you want.
i am sure by now you have calmed down :)

I can see your point and of course I understand what you're talking about, but I'm afraid I don't agree on everything, or in other words I think you can't really make a rule about it the way you put it...now generally speaking you are right..but I don't think it applies to everyone..or to each case...

let me tell you this:
I go complain to my best friend about people & their behavior…..does that make me a bad person? I mean isn’t it normal to share your frustration with someone close, knowing that this person will never ever tell a word about it to anyone no matter what?
we usually share a lot, we even complain about each other’s families sometimes 3adi ya3ni :)
Now I don’t know about other people, but for me I have this "rule" (if we can call it so) that I don’t talk behind people’s back specially if they are close…
meaning: yes there are things that I don’t like about my best friend -for example- and I could complain about them to my mom msalan, but at the same time I tell her about them in her face…I don’t go talk behind her back and in front of her pretend that everything is nice and dandy…so she basically knows what I don't like or what annoys me minha...
Does that still make me a bad person and a backstabber? Now I really wonder..   

my mother told me a long time ago "who gossips with you gossips about you" and I have leared that she was right the hard way..
It is really hard to confide in someone as you will never be sure if they will keep it or not.. I have a group of 5 best frinds.. we have been together for more than 15 years, time tought me who of them can keep a secret and who cant..
If you have a secret that you cant keep in and you want to talk about it to someone who will keep it, I am here for you :)

What is true in real life is also true in the blogosphere, you should have known better.