Fadi:الله يرحمها و يجعل مثواها بعليين و يجمعك معها بالجنة بعد عم%
بلوجر بالعربي:looks very good
بلوجر بالعربي:مفيد جداً
Noura:Different home, but same longing and nostalgia .. it seems we are chasing a mirage , Beirut of my dreams does not exist nor the people i miss .. i don't know if my gains were worth the losses ? I
price waves repeat:The other day, while I was at work, my sister stole my iphone and tested to see if it can survive a 25 foot drop, just so she can be a youtube sensation. My iPad is now broken
Sara:You can say that again!God Bless🕊
ياسمين حميد:كما هي طبيعتنا نحن العرب، عند الانتقال بين منصة وأخرى لا نحت%
Sara:No, never meaningless.. amen ya Raby🙏God Bless🕊
Qwaider:These possessions are meaningless as you said, but it's still painful to let go :( May Allah grant you all you wish for and unite you with your loved ones
Sara:Wallah bro we literally own nothing, not even our own flesh & blood.. I always wished to have a corner, a special wall, and never did. Moved more than you can imagine, and currently not having my own
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Memories....
Chill Q
Second: Quit making up stories to blog about! A 23 yr old “trophy wife” barged in and argued with THREE phds a decade or 2 older than her about something she herself doesn’t know about that happens to be their field….ummm yea ok whatever
especially being 23 and married... tsk tsk tsk, u must simply be a spoiled wife whose husband *has* to agree with her
sarcasm aside..the last comment showed how much you really think of women.. they are only useful to u in the bedroom, anywhere else, and they need to shut up so YOU, the great and knowledgeable man, can think.
guess one can only hide behind facades for so long..
jad sad wallahi, it seems men these days only pretend to get past all the stupidity, its always there under the surface, waiting to come out in a rare moment of "rage" as it was called here
THAT's why its directed at married women. single women are allowed to have opinions. once they become married, they must adopt the above traits, otherwise, they are not very good wives and will get on men's nerves.... and that's just plain wrong.
Well what about the making up stories part? Can the married woman at least be allowed to do that or is that only a privilege of the single male? What if she makes up stories but does that IN the bedroom?
grrrrrrrrrr
Come on Q, you are always angry at women you are not allowing yourself to see any positive side in them..You want them all to be bad regardless, and if we,by reading your posts can feel your lack of respect toward us women, I can't imagine how it feels to face you,it would be easy to see through you..So be careful as you will end up without a lady in your life..unless u really don't need one.
Yep, I know, I'd claim temporary insanity :)
Wonders
True, so true. I just woke up. So I'm chill'in :)
Hani
You think?
Globalorama
Had I been married, AND it was my wife I would have supported her 100% ALL THE WAY good or bad right or wrong! Yep, I'm a rabbit too :E
Asoom
There is a reason why I stated that she's married. And that reason being: She has "Someone" who sees the world through her eyes. Which means, false and continuous approval and encouragement. Making her really not get it when she's WAAAAAYYYY off. Just like a little spoiled kid. They don't know they're wrong or their limits because no one has ever set them out for them.
Quit making up stories? I'm sorry but I don't find any relevance to this statement here.
Tinkerbella
Tinkerbella, tinkerbella, tinkerbella... That's not true, Ammo Qwaider isn't always right, and isn't always wrong.
And yes, she was a spoiled 23 or 22 year old brat who knew NOTHING about what we were talking about. Yet she insisted to force her WRONG opinion (as agreed by the 3 subject matter experts)
Actually, Women are useful to me inside and outside of the bedroom. The three people I mentioned happen to be 2 women and one man. But I saw that to be irrelevant.
However, YOU appear to be suffering from counter discrimination anxiety. Where anything remotely related to you makes you get upset
Don't get upset, I'm not a woman basher. I love women, I respect women. In fact, I don't distinguish between women and men in just about everything.
The rage was simply do to the fact, that we had to shut up and not make a total fool out of the lady because we didn't want to ruin the evening.
Tinkerbella 2:
That's not true, the way I see it, women become much LOUDER when they get married as the lines between "what they can" and "what they should" say blur. Most women I know become more assertive after marriage. A good thing in my humble opinion if she was on the right side of the argument all the time. But since that's an impossibility. I find it to be more on the annoying side.
I completely believe that women gain strength from a supportive husband. sometimes they abuse it, others they don't. It's up to the certain individual to decide to be the person they like or want to be. A little encouragement should be met with more appreciation. Therefore having the husband to be the first victim of the newly found courage is not something I appreciate.
Why don't you get it? I don't care if the person is married or single when they state thier mind. I respect BOTH if it was presented in a non obnoxious stupid way. But basing ALL one's experience on the fact that she's married now. Is really nothing!
Asoom#2
No Asoom, I disagree with STUPIDITY not WOMEN. What exactly are you trying to show here that I'm a bigoted sexist?! That's not the case. Trust me, it's not.
Oh, and thank you for showing me exactly what you feel about me. Someone who argues with you is immediately transformed into the devil in the flesh. Thanks, really bravo. I seriously expected so much more from you.
No one CAN monopolize these things, but many people THINK that they do.
As for making stories, I have no idea what you're talking about Asoom, I know you mean something specific. But I don't get it. Sorry, my male mind is too simple to comprehend these "hints"
Mariam
I AM old, bitter, unmarried man :)
I decided I'm going to spoil my wife so bad and allow her to ruin everyone's conversation. :) Let me see anyone dare say no to her :)
Marvin
Absolutely, it's irrelevant. But I mentioned it because there was relevance. She's been a spoiled-everything-you-say-is-the-ultimate-bible to her husband. Which made her THINK that she can do the same to other men/people.
Noura,
If she was single, Older, had a RELEVANT PHD, the discussion would have been more exciting and RELEVANT. We weren't arguing at all we were discussing a very interesting scientific matter.
Noura, I swear to you, we discuss and argue ALL THE TIME with men and WOMEN, the gender part doesn't even get mentioned... EVER! But that's because we're all professionals in what we were doing. She was not.
I am not always angry at women. I'm not always angry period. I love and respect women. For god's sake I am the only male in a full house of women. Do you think I would get that far if I had contempt to women?
Thanks for your Advice noura, but I'm sorry to disappoint you that no one can see right through me. I have my own ideas that many people may or may not agree with. But that doesn't mean that presenting these ideas is a window to how I will live my life in a specific situation.
I wish u always the best of luck :)
Is that what you think a husband's job is? To "set limits" for his wife? And who is setting limits for him?
"Limits" are a part of upbringing, set by the parents to their child or by GOD (or whatever higher authority you follow) to adults... not by husband to his wife. Not a good husband anyway.
re your reply to me: you even had to contradict me about you being always right... no comment there :) (altho if u really want me to beleieve that, you have to show me a good on argument where you were presented with a differing view and you backed down... which I've NEVER seen you do, no matter how many others disagree with you and no matter the subject matter).
I don't know what it is you were discussing nor what her opinions were, so I can't comment..
I appear to be suffering from counter discrimination anxiety (defined by you as "Where anything remotely related to you makes you get upset")???? I fail to see how this relates to me, besides her not agreeing with you and being married/same age.
Or are you trying tell me that when I argue with you, I am just a silly ignorant woman voicing her stupid opinions while talking to you, the expert?
and FYI, had you come in here complaining about ignorant people who voiced opinons when they had no scientific background in that subject matter, there would have not been a single person who would disagree with you... but you turned it into being a matter of being an ignorant women who should not dare to voice her opinion, except to her husband because he's the only one whipped enough to agree with her.
reply 2: FYI... there isn't always ONE "right" side to the argument!! when will you realize that there CAN be two completely different views and both can still be right, based on diff circumstances???
jad, its about time y3ni!!!
Sure, women gain strength from a supportive husband, but they also gain that from a supportive set of parents, esp a supportive father. I don't think much has changed about my behavior from living with my parents to being married.. I have never been one to "keep quiet" and have always gotten support to do so, from parents or hubby, so really, the argument you presented really has nothing to do with the fact that she's married
or maybe u did that just to mention the word "bedroom"....3eeb 3aleek by the way, now your blog is not PG rated as you claim :)
re other ppl's replies:
you have two resounding ideas:
1. if a person has a phd, THEN they are allowed to discuss with you, and
2. you are going to agree with everything your wife says
as for 1... um, NO. i know ppl who don't even have a high school education and yet they are well informed and read enough and have enough common sense that when they talk, they are just as much experts (if not more than) as some of the so-called phd's sitting at the table (and fyi, having a phd doesnt mean you're smart, I know alot of phds who are complete idiots.... ma dakhal. just because you convinced a univ out there to give u a degree, does NOT automatically make you smart)
thats not to say all ppl with phd's are dumb, becaue of course, some ppl actually took their education seriously and learned sth and truly become experts in that tiny domain of their field in which they chose to specialize... but my point is, u have smart phds and u have dumb phds, just like you have smart ppl and dumb ppl .... weslat? ;)
as for no. 2... first of all, i have much difficulty imagining you allowing your wife to even THINK of an opinion different to yours, much less voice it (and of course, we all know your opinions are always right :D)... but if you do end up agreeing with everything she says, even when she presents wrong FACTS, not only are you truly not looking out for her msla7a (allowing her to continue to voice wrong FACTS (plz notice, facts, not opinions, because she will always be entitled to her own opinions, no matter how "wrong" they may be), she will be a laughingstock among her peers) as well as the fact that life really will become very boring, for both of u!
I do like being around heros like our fighting men and women in uniforms and I will always show them, my uttermost respect and admiration and if it means to be quiet,I'll be quiet,I don't care how much it costs me,because I am a drama queen and like to be the center of attention and talk,talk,talk.I guess you can tell by my blog.But,I'll never miss a party,dinner,or any kind of social gatherings as I just love painting the town red,even if it means having to be quiet and listen for a change.I am actually in training with my friend,God never misses a beat,when it comes to training me.
We were talking about diffie-Hellman key exchange.
Noura
You're right, I have a wall, and no one can go through. Except people I want :)
But I'm so appreciative of your words. Thank you so much
Tinkerbella
Yes, it's the husband's job to help define the limits for his wife. Yep you heard it right. The husband has an obligation to define the social limits for his wife. Not just that, but the WIFE ALSO has the obligation to define the social limits of her husband. That's why married men are better "groomed" socially. Because of the presence of their wife it helps them cover this bases. The same can be said about children
Let me give you an example
When a child throws a tantrum in a public place he usually gets what he wants. Right? And when a wife/husband does it... They get what they want. If the spouse decides that they don't want to challenge this. It becomes the norm. When that happens some people start feeling that it's their given right and start practicing it with everyone. (Aka Spoiled)
A good husband will help his wife develop socially, just as she would him.
I'm not always right, I don't have to PROVE that I was wrong at times. We are the sum of all our thoughts and mistakes. The truth is, I don't back down easily especially when there's no proof. So those instances will be limited. The subject we were discussing is of no relevance here. It was about a very technical matter and she jumped in on an example not knowing the whole context.
You know what I mean about counter discrimination. Fact is, most feminists suffer from it. Not claiming that you're a feminist or anything. But many people view a shadow and think it's a wolf.
FYI, I didn't say Ignorant people because this is something that keeps repeating with a specific segment. Little married girls. Yeah sure ignorant people annoy me too, but that specific segment gets on my nerves. Other married women 3ala rasi. They don't do that. So FYI, I know WHOM I'm talking about, and not super-generalizing. (because lets face it I did generalize about that segment)
Now regarding FYI2 I completely agree. There's isn't a single right answer, there isn't a single side.
Bedroom is a PG violation? Says who?
as for lovely conclusions:
1) If a person knows or relates to the issue at hand. I don't mind discussing with them and even picking their brains.
2) I will agree with everything my wife says. You think I'm a fool to disagree!!? I WILL AGREE and even if she's wrong I WILL AGREE! :)
And trust me, my future wife will be allowed full autonomy. Unless she needs my help. And you can take that to the bank! As for agreeing with her all the time, that's an ongoing joke among the guys about me :)
Anon
Yes, Sept 11 was caused by marriage. Do you think anyone would choose to die if it wasn't for having a horrible wife? LOL, just kidding. I'm not that dramatic. Yet, I agree with you, I happen to contradict my self since this is a human thing. I don't usually contradict my self regarding the same subject though.
As for being the ring in my wife's finger, that much is true :)
I don't have problems preventing me from getting married. Yes, I am VERY scared of it, but it didn't escalate to problematic levels yet(I hope).
Now I don't think I attacked anyone married, I feel a lot of sympathy towards them though. Poor souls ... I'll probably join them soon
Let me guess, You were not always like this. When you were a young wife, it was a little bit different. But when you grew a little bit older it became clearer to you that it's really not all that great to "shut everyone up"
Now if Tinkerbella can just put aside her hatred of me, and listen to the specific "type" of people I am talking about she might even exchange sides and be on mine
"What exactly are you trying to show here that I'm a bigoted sexist?!"
Have you read your post? YOU are trying to show here that you are a sexist. So unless I forced you to write that post I can't take credit for that, that's all you.
we're not similar (Me and you). But that doesn't mean that we have to disagree. Or find things to disagree about all the time.
I believe a husband helps shape the social face of his wife. And the woman does the very same thing. This partnership is what makes married men and women more reserved socially. Because they have someone to tell them about their mistakes. To help them out and watch their back for them
You are not reading and understanding what I want. You're reading and understanding what YOU want. Which makes the argument really unfair. Read what Naryat said in the previous post about like and agree. And you will get my point.
Hani,
Had she asked for explanation we would have been more than happy to provide it for her. But she didn't she barged in there and started schooling everyone.
I think what helped me shut up as a military wife being around all the military men and women, all the time,as the military is all about social engagements,all the time,was my R-E-S-P-E-C-T for my ex-husband,at all times,that is what I gave him,and always will, and L-O-Y-A-L-T-Y,and I will nver-ever speak of him,but with uttermost respect.
Respect right back at you Crystal.
WOW!
And he was ready to risk his life for America his beloved country,he is a great father and all of his 4 sons love and admire him,he's also a good son and brother and he has an incredible work ethic,all in all he's a GREAT MAN.What can I say I married a TRUE WINNER and a HERO and another fact about my ex-husband is that he likes the way I look,even till this day,which is so important to me, and since men are visual it is important for men to marry their type of good looking women.
What does your type of woman look like,Qwader?I hope you don't mind my question,it is something for you to think about,though,so think hard about it,please,I should know,I was married to the same man for 27 years.
Oh and I like chubby chicks. I don't know why, but love someone who's got meat on their bones :)
I like on the other hand thin men,not skinny,but slim,in shape,with toned bodies and a little muscle,not big.And also,my type are men that like to walk a lot and work out ALL THE TIME,and watch me dance.But chubby no way.I like a great looking guy that can keep up with me,and he has to like a wild,crazy tiny woman,because I like that about myself and I ain't changing that.
And of course character counts great deal ,he has to have a great character.
So,do you like to exrcise like me,Qwaider? And don't you want a woman that keeps herself in great shape?
And do you want your wife to work outside the home and bear some of the expenses?That is a question you need to ask yourself.
And it is important that a husband has dignity at all times,so your wife needs to know that and ponder about that a great deal.
I like working out, however, I don't have much time to do that these days. But I have decided that I will be doing that. Since I have gained weight after I quit smoking and it's time to get rid of it.
I also like to maintain my (and her) dignity and integrity in front and away from my wife. If not for me, for her. I believe when we're a couple we're both judged as a couple. We're no longer judged as singles. That's why her dignity must be honored by every (and I'll make sure of that) even from my own family.
Actually I do have hairs on my chest. But why are you asking :)?
That is great wisdom, that you will make sure that both you and she will have dignity and integrity in front and away from your wife.And you are right people will form an opinion of you as a couple,absolutely,she will reflect you Qwaider ,in what she says and how she behaves and acts.And I am glad you will be there for your wife when it comes to a relationship with your family,it will be vital for her.That's great it will be a task as your family will form an opinion about her,and it will be elemantal that your wife maintain dignity and will be respected by your whole family at all times.I feel like teling you: "You are correct,sir",as Ed used to say to Johnny on the Tonight Show.
By the way, I did not mention how smart my ex-husband was,and he had great common sense,he was brave too, and he's very responsable.
Awww crystal, your so cute :)
What is wrong with you people? I too suffer from these :We know what is best for you- little girl kind of married women. Getting married does not make one know everything about life over night. And just because you have a baby on your shoulder at the age of 22 does not mean you know how I need to live my life.
Allah yir7am Ayyamek ya Faten with big head of hair that people used to confuse me with.
I eye sir!
I hope so .. I really hope so. But frankly, I'm so afraid of the whole thing.
Fire-Faten,
:S!
Noura
Inshallah, ya rab. Allah yisma3 minnek
Kinzi
Thanks Kinzi, argue all you like :)
TheCaller
Yeah, I see, and my chest hair is relevant ... how? :D
LOL
Some of us actually have our own personalities and can think logically for ourselves, without having to suck up to the men in our lives.
shayeftelak kamshet banat hoon 3emlo 3aleak 7elf mo3arada, ya3leena..
Q
bsharafak ma z-heget mn hal 7aki el fadi ??