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Don't blame ME for your failure!

By: Qwaider

On:Tuesday, November 13, 2007 12:00:01 AM
In:Thoughts
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Some people are clueless! Completely and utterly clueless! They do something, it goes haywire and look around for some scapegoat to blame it on! Just for being there! And guess what, they become hostile and really weird and MAD because they screwed up! Well, tough luck Bozo .. Your own mistakes were your own undoing! I couldn't have been more successful in ruining it if I tried!

I really get upset when some one's perspective of me changes because s/he THINKS that I had something to do with his failure! What have I got to do with that!?

Any person with half a brain who can think will be able to pinpoint where he went wrong, and come up with a plan to rectify their mistakes. But that is simply not the case with Arabs in general! If we do something wrong it CAN'T BE OUR FAULT! EVER! It has to be some one's mistake! They have done it. They screwed up! They did everything for us to fail!

Well, excuse me, but the world doesn't revolve around any of us. And if you do something that fails, don't go on blaming people around you for it! For all you know these people you're blaming are the ones who tried to help you! But a clueless person is exactly like that CLUELESS.

One day we have to grow up, and learn to blame ourselves for our mistakes! That's the only way to progress!

But don't take my word for it, God swears by the person who blames self first " وَلا أُقْسِمُ بِالنَّفْسِ اللَّوّامَةِ" "I swear with self blaming soul. Just an indication at how great self blame is. Don't blame anyone else for your failure if you ever want to move on!

Admitting our own mistakes is the first stage to fixing them! And the first step in the long road to success!

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#1
chikapappi
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On: 11/13/2007 12:43:29 AM

Hmm why do I have a sense that I know what you are talking about?! Ok, I just keep saying one thing & I will repeat it till I die!!! PEOPLE JUST GET ALONG!! No need for people to be friends or close bas khalas, we share this universe & a9lan we won't be here that long, it's all going away one day. I seriously think that people take things waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too personal & it drives me insane! Everyone has mistakes bas khalas, one forgets & moves on.. no need to linger & hang all our loves on it... is that too difficult!?

#2
Qwaider
Said
On: 11/13/2007 12:51:20 AM

I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing. But I'm certain that you must have passed through this too. I think everyone in this world have. People blaming bystanders for being there when something happened. You know what I mean?

#3
طفيلي( ahmad)
Said
On: 11/13/2007 12:58:54 AM

Why do usually blame other? The answer is very simple: Arabs love to put their noses in other people business. When these people stop interfering and learn something called privacy, then we can learn to be independent and stop whining. I hate when my life is agood material for backbiting from close people. For example,i wanted to study course in univeristy, i found my family chnaged my application for univeristy without telling me and put different course for me.in this case , should i blamed them or not for being failure. Or when they force to get married to womeen who i dont like it. shoudl i blame them or not. or when i vote to fing someone becasue he is from my clan although i hate him.