Take your kid home! Stupid
- By: Qwaider
- On:Sunday, November 04, 2007 4:29:25 AM
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Rated 4.7/5 stars (97 votes cast)
I love kids! I adore the little angels. I enjoy playing with them and don't mind then in weddings picnics or any other outings. I just love kids.
But then comes the stupid parents. Clueless, angry, violent, incapable to controlling or understanding their kids. They barge in, start shouting, and fuming. As if the toddler knows better. Worse yet, if you tell them to cool a little bit down, they explode in your face, or in the face of their spouse!. And storm out of the place, ruining the atmosphere for everyone!
I swear, if it was up to me, I would mandate that any person who thinks they're fit to have kids MUST keep a pet for a year, then allow them to have real human babies!
We have established long ago that having babies is not a miracle! Just about any monkey and his brother are able to have babies. It's no big deal. Infinite wisdom is really not a prerequisite, nor is it a result. But what IS really a big deal I would say is raising these babies to be good, productive, successful people. In a healthy, safe environment
Most don't even know how to take care of themselves yet, they go ahead anyway and bring another life to suffer their miserable existence.
I can already see some disasters in the making. Little kids manipulating, intimidating and blackmailing the parents who are submitting to their wishes. It's sad really. And even worse, most of the ill disciplined kids I see around me are for Arab parents
The kids can already push their parents buttons and manipulate their surroundings to force their parents into doing what they want all while fearing embarrassment, in front of guests, relatives or friends
These parents, should take their kids home, seek some help, read a book. Shoot themselves ... whatever, just don't make this problem everyone else's issue. We're already OK with your kids screaming, shouting and acting crazy and breaking everything. We rather hear him shout than you. We rather see him go on a tantrum rather than an adult who appears to be up to strangle his spouse because of it!
Raising kids is a huge responsibility, if you don't think you're up to it, then maybe you're not. But if you think that you can do it. Then educate yourself first! If you get stuck, seek help! It shouldn't be more difficult than it already is
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hehe, me too!
bs yea, i hate ppl like that...if ppl actually took a hand in raising thier kids, maybe they wouldnt need to act like an ass when their kids embarassed them in public.
and of course, if you were doing good parenting, then you would know that sometimes no matter what you do, kids will be kids and thats that...and simply try to fix the situation, not blow up cuz you cant control your kids!!!
IMO, ppl should have to study and get a degree before being allowed to have kids!!
HAHA, so true :D
reminds me of the movie that I watched last, called License to wed.
were one of the objectives is to take care of ugly and very annoying robbot babies to make sure that they can take care of kids before they have their own.
One other thing, in the arab world it is shameful to get support or social help in the family.
Ummm I don't know, over the holidays, when people bring their kids over, they used to sit with my parents and leave their kid with me for a couple of hours. They would screw up my computer, open my closet and start messing around with everything inside. Take objects and throw them around for fun.
Little angels ? more like little monsters. Let's just say I started locking my room whenever kids show up at our house. If they wanna play games on my pc, I WILL be rude and tell them 'play games on your own pc at home', at which point they will cry and go to mommy, but I can reason with mommy so its not a problem !
wisely said...shu hada i'm finding myself nodding my head and agreeing on everything u say...u r too wise for ur age :)
I'm glad you like it
Hani Obaid
You're so mean :)
But I completely understand. We sometimes let it go and try our best to accommodate for the little kids. But their parents.... Akh!!!
Oriental Arabesque
I'm so honored and flattered with your words. Thank you very much
Deemco
I love kids too. I don't mind the screaming as much as I mind parent's attitude. Yalla.. Okbal ma nifra7 feeki ya 3aroosetna
Afaf
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I hope it's fixed now. check it out
Thank you
One of the great examples, when a kid used to grab the prophet's (pbuh) hand to take him somewhere, he'd actually follow his/her lead! Didn't he have a life? Wasn't he busy with anything at all to follow a kid?
Now I see parents pushing their OWN kids (so imagine other's kids) to the side; to give a way or something..
WAllahi it saddens my heart.. That's why our kids have a low self worth & hardly discover their gifts..
I could go on forever..
It's just.. I think we need professional help & guide on that..
With respect,