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« Supergirl and Me!You're a loser! »

Career Suicide!

  • By: Qwaider

  • On:Monday, October 22, 2007 8:48:19 PM
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    Rated 4.6/5 stars (85 votes cast) Thanks for your vote!

    It appears that people sometimes end up with a loose wire in their brain or a loose nut or something. They go berzerk! And for some reason they decide that they really freak out and just destroy everything they have! Problem is, they "think" they're right! When everything view them as being the epitome of wrong! In just about everything. Worse part, they have the audacity to consider people who are trying to help them .. enemies!

    banana suicide

    No this is not about the Rock Band "Career Suicide"

    I've had it ... Seriously, I have had it!

    A colleague (soon to be ex-colleague, if things continue to develop in this way) is really committing career suicide! Defying superiors. Rejecting work tasks, not showing up sometimes and even going as far as insulting his managers IN WRITTEN FORMAT!

    I don't know how what goes in the mind of a suicidal employee! When I look back at how many hours I have spent trying to convince him that what he's doing is wrong and how this will not only harm him, but just about everyone around him. No one is indispensable, I don't care how many PhD's you have, your attitude speaks volumes. And quite frankly, no body is really benefiting from his vast knowledge!

    So on Friday, I thought I managed to get through to him. And got his commitment that he will change, and fix his work and his attitude. This morning I was driving to work and was thinking of talking to one of the top management to convince Mr Suicidal to seek professional help (and it's completely paid for and covered by the company so it's free to him).

    But after what I saw today! I wouldn't blame his management if they do anything to him! I did what I can in my capacity. I even talked to his friends outside of work and urged them to intervene and some have actually talked to him and thought It worked.

    There's nothing more that I can do to a suicidal person. I'm not going to jump off the roof with him! This whole thing is starting to feel like quicksand, the more you struggle, the worse you sink. If he's adamant that he wants to go all Lindsay Lohan on us and ruin his career.... He's on his own!

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    • asoom
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    • On: 10/22/2007 9:09:30 PM
    I didn't understand if you also mean suididal or just what you call "career suicidal" but if you think someone really is suicidal it's very important they get professional help and that you inform the right people within your workplace!  I've known a few people in my life that committed suicide and it's not a matter to be taken lightly.
    sometimes dignity kicks in, at others one's mind just shuts off! Ask me! It happens... I feel sorry for your colleague actually! I understand what's he going through
    Why do you even bother? (are you getting a promotion if you fix this?)

    Do your work, go home and be happy!
    • #4
    • sam
    • Windows Internet Explorer
    • Said
    • On: 10/23/2007 7:41:47 AM
    yah haram ..poor banana...u did what you could...it is his problem not yours..maybe when he gets fired he will know not to do this again...if he hates his job so much why does he not look for another instead of making it hard on everyone
    Yes wallahi ya Sam, I wish this was the case.
    But I take conciliation in the fact that I did what I can

    Fire-faten. I bother because somehow I care about others

    Chika..
    I think the Tayaseh gene activated in his brain


    Asoom, Not real suicide, but career suicide. Although, nothing is far fetched these days!
    The guy sent an email in writing bitching at his manager, and their manager ... God!
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